Where to start. My last girlfriend, sadly, was about 3 - coming up to 4 - years ago since we split. I won't get into details of why, that will take too long, but ever since, and still to this day, she seems to be playing mind games with me... She's had a few boyfriends since, and I haven't had any girlfriends. Now, every time she isn't with someone, she seems to come running back to me, talking to me, calling me all the time, and it's always nice, y'know? But that is a problem, because I haven't found anyone since, I seem to relish it when she does this, when I do not want to. Most recently, between like September - November of last year, she was calling every night, and to me, it seemed like we might end up back together - which I, being a stupid guy - thought, and was happy about, because to be honest, I've never felt the way I felt about her, about anyone else. I can't see her that much as we go to University in two very different parts of the country. I saw her around January time, where we did Lunch and spent the day together - it was really nice, I was happy to do so, but I didn't say how I was feeling to her - probably a stupid mistake on my part. She proceeds to ask me at lunch, if I'm seeing anyone, to which i responded no, as I was/am not. I asked her the same, and she tells me she is kind of seeing this guy, and then was very quick to say 'But it's not going anywhere' as if to say, don't worry. We then talk for a bit longer, but upon her returning to Uni, a couple of weeks later, she is with this guy that 'it wasnt going anywhere' with, and is still with him now. And surprise surprise, she now doesn't talk to me at all. 100% she will when/if they break up. Now I've tried, I really have, to get over her, but I find it difficult as she keeps coming back. But if anyone could shed some light on one of two things it would be useful.
A) What game is she playing? Why is she like this with me and being such a headf**k?
B ) Why does it mess with my head so much? What can I do to get over her? Had a couple of one time stands/flings kinda thing, but I still haven't found anyone to completely take my mind off her. What do i need to do?
Anyone can help, that would be useful!
Sorry to rant!
This post has been edited by wilderb33st: Wed Jun 05, 2013 07:24 PM