is a giving oral to a girl more intimate than a bj for a guy?
Posted Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:14 PM
Posted Tue Jul 23, 2013 12:20 AM
Posted Tue Jul 23, 2013 02:19 AM
Posted Tue Jul 23, 2013 11:33 AM
IMO, there is no difference. After all it is using one's mouth, lips, and tongue on other person's genitalia; that's all there is to it. I know we all are different but if I sense she is doing it because she is expected to, has to, whatnot it's not worth it. Half-assed attempts can't make me hard let alone cum. If she puts herself into it, and makes love to my cock her 'skills' are almost irrelevant. Perfect blowjob is all about passion and enthusiasm; without it it is just another way of masturbation. And no one can masturbate my cock better than I can ...
This, of course, works just the same the other way around.
Posted Thu Jul 25, 2013 09:37 AM
I get really caught up in the moment when eating pussy. My heart races, my temperature rises, my cock hardens, and my face, once I'm done, is completely covered in her juices. It's like I'm making love to her pussy with my tongue. I even moan while eating pussy. It's a beautiful act I can do on a woman and make her cum. It's great.
Posted Thu Jul 25, 2013 07:23 PM
Posted Wed Jul 31, 2013 02:41 AM
If a girl is giving a bj while just in the living room, still (partially) dressed and is sucking, slurping, commenting and so on, it's not very intimate, whereas if you're laying on the bed and she's slowly sucking and kissing, then that can be intimate too.
Likewise with giving a girl oral. If you sit her up on something and go sucking and licking aggressively, then it's not intimate, whereas once again if you lay her down, lick and arouse her slowly, that's a more intimate one.
I've had, and given, both and enjoy both, it really just depends on the current situation.
Posted Thu Aug 01, 2013 09:11 PM
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Posted Fri Aug 02, 2013 10:11 PM
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 08:01 AM
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 07:07 PM
At parties, I seekout women to get/give oral, however my husband will not go down on another woman.
He says it's too personal for him.... However, he will allow any woman to go down on him.
definitely a personal thing!!
Posted Tue Aug 06, 2013 06:02 AM
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Posted Tue Aug 06, 2013 10:21 AM
Your other half is a lucky guy
Posted Thu Aug 08, 2013 02:03 PM
I don't know why I feel that way, perhaps because my ex-lover got countless blowjobs from me and never once went down on me (I was fine with this at the time lol).
On the other hand though, a couple of my other casual partners have gone down without hesitation, so I don't know. It just feels like a more intimate act for me. I'd rather a casual partner not go down on me. I want my encounters like that to be to the point, and a lot of times I don't even need foreplay and giving a BJ is more than enough to arouse me thoroughly. However, when I am experiencing a more intimate situation, "making love" as opposed to fucking, oral on me seems more appropriate. Otherwise I can do without.
Posted Thu Aug 08, 2013 10:25 PM