Decide to attend Swing party
Posted Thu Aug 01, 2013 01:27 PM
What are your thoughts? Good idea or bad?
I'm debating on this... I've seen it go both ways, and sometimes I wonder what the real reason is... if it is in fact just a cheating excuse or not?
Posted Fri Aug 02, 2013 01:52 PM
ps. in 10 years we have only played with 3 couples. only a few times
This post has been edited by dejacks3: Fri Aug 02, 2013 01:52 PM
Posted Thu Oct 31, 2013 03:48 PM
Posted Fri Nov 01, 2013 03:10 PM
If you're feeling bad about it, and it sounds as if you were, then going for it would probably be a mistake. Don't let yourself be pushed into something you aren't comfortable with.
Posted Sat Nov 02, 2013 08:33 AM
At the very least, set firm rules before going. For example, say that you will go but only to observe- no playing the first time. That lets you explore the scene without feeling pressure to participate. First time I went to a lifestyle club, I merely watched. This is perfectly OK. At any swing event, there should be no pressure for anyone to get involved.
Posted Wed Nov 27, 2013 12:22 AM