Sex Story - My Messed Up Situation
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 10:38 AM
A few months ago I got married. Life was wonderful for a few weeks, then cracks began to show. My wife started going out with her mates a lot, started talking to a lot of people online, and began to stay up later and later. She started to become distant from me, didn't want hugs or kisses, and certainly not sex. We had sex twice in the few weeks after we married, and it wasn't great - I did all the work. About a month after we got married, she went on a weekend away with her sister, or so she told me, and two weeks later she went away again for a weekend with her "friend". Through the entire six weeks my suspicions were growing. I even caught some guy calling her baby one night, but she went nuts at me and told me that's how people talk online. For the entire six weeks, I kept asking what was wrong because it was obvious something was up. Then she drops bombshell number 1...
She told me she was no longer in love with me. This was devastating news. We began to talk about her reasons, and she told me her feelings started to change six weeks ago. I apologised for how I had made her feel and we started to talk to try and fix the issues. Then comes bombshell number 2... she admits she has been with two other guys on those weekends away. The first was just a friendly encounter. The second was not, and she had deep feelings for the guy. After getting over the initial shock and telling her I had suspicions for weeks, I still wanted to work things out because I loved her so much. We were together for almost a decade before we got married. We spent most of two days in each others arms, in tears. She then said she needed to see this guy to sort things out. I said ok, and off she went.
A couple of days later, she came back, burst into tears and begged for forgiveness, saying she would never leave me again. Still, she could not simply ignore this guy and wanted to go seem him again. Once again I let her go. If I didn't, she would have gone anyway. She said she would not sleep with him. A few days later she messaged me to say they got drunk and she had slept with him.
The following week, it became clear that there was no saving our relationship. We both realized there were reasons why we would probably break up eventually. Better to do it now with no kids involved. So after weeks of crying, I accepted our relationship was over and we both began to move on, agreeing we would remain friends. Afterall, we still love each other.
She started living with the guy most days of the week, 100 miles away, coming back for short periods. During these periods, I was still finding it hard to let go, asking for hugs and putting my arm around her while watching tv. I often found myself becoming aroused, just like old times. She didn't mind all this (though I didn't tell her I was getting aroused), but she did tell me I need to stop acting like we are still together.
She came again this past weekend to start packing some things. We spent most of the afternoon and early evening getting things together. I was passing things down from the attic, getting very hot and sweaty, breathing heavily. We then went downstairs and her new boyfriend called her. They were on the phone for about half an hour. Meanwhile I was looking at a dating site answering various questions, laughing at a couple of sex questions. While still on the phone, she asked me what I was laughing at and I explained. So she is still on the phone to her new boyfriend, while looking at me, still hot and sweaty, talking about sex and looking for a new girlfriend.
Once she finished on the phone, she came and sat next to me and went to pick up her laptop. I asked her to give me a quick hug. It turned into a long hug. I squeezed her tight, and she squeezed me tight. I began to rub her back, and she began to squeeze mine. After a couple of minutes or so, I moved my head back and looked her in the eyes. She launched her lips at me, tongue inside my mouth, and we began kissing more passionately than we had since our wedding 3 months ago. I began to fondle her breast, and moved down to suck her nipples while grabbing her leg. She's breathing heavy as I start rubbing her pussy through her trousers. I pull her trousers off and begin to lick her clit. While I am down there, I look at her face and realize the guilt she must be feeling, considering she is supposed to be in a serious relationship with this other guy. I almost stopped, but thought she would at least like me to finish. But that little voice in my head told me to remove my trousers, so I did. She stood up and ushered me upstairs to the bedroom. As I pinned her down on the bed, I asked if she was sure, and she said yes, but this doesn't mean we are back together. I said that's ok, and thrust inside her. She told me she had wanted to do this for hours. I did all the work, but we both had amazing orgasms - the best we had in a long time. It felt wrong, but so right. I had never been in a situation like this before. Afterwards, I said, just pretend we were in vegas for a night - I won't tell anyone - and she says, that won't happen again. I could see the guilt on her face as she replied to a text from her boyfriend.
The following day, we continued packing her things, saying little of the previous night. In the afternoon, we were talking and I gave her another hug. Her face told me exactly what was coming, shortly before she launched at me and began to grope me, as we kissed passionately once again. She dragged me all the way up to the bedroom and ripped off my clothes. As I went down on her once again, she changed positions to a 69 and began sucking my cock before pinning me down to the bed and riding me. Some time later, seeing her exhausted, we switched positions and I brought us both to almost simultaneous climax again. I told her, just another night in vegas baby as we lay breathing heavily.
I can't remember the last time we had such amazing sex! It wasn't that good on our wedding night because we were so exhausted. Later on I asked for another quick hug as I was going to bed and her boyfriend was coming to pick her up for the long ride home. She refused, laughing about what had happened and how it will not happen again, so I kissed her on the cheek and said good night.
Now I am wondering what will happen next weekend when she comes back...
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 11:02 AM
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 08:25 PM
Posted Mon Aug 05, 2013 10:01 PM
So, you got married a few months ago after being together for almost 10 years. And shortly into it your marriage falls apart. Was there a reason you finally decided to tie the knot?
Also, she became distant at some point and started talking online, told you she didn't love you anymore - but you agreed to talk about your 'issues' and you apologised for how you made her feel. Sounds like you've left out a bit of the story to me?
I kinda balked as well with you talking about 'her boyfriend' and you on dating sites. I get the strong feeling there is a lot of 'story' we don't know about both of you.
It just appears to me that you're both quite a bit immature. And, I agree with the other posters. You should both stay away from one another until you're both aware of what it is you both really want. Oh, and if you all are going to be playing tag-sex - you, her, her boyfriend, someone you meet on one of those dating sites, be sure you're having protected sex.
I wish you well.
Posted Tue Aug 06, 2013 03:41 AM
We had been talking about getting married for a long time, and started planning it a year earlier, after being engaged and living together 4 years. We were even trying for a baby, but she has a health problem which makes that difficult (we're glad now that a child is not involved in this). A little before the wedding, she was annoyed at me for keep talking about money, and even hinted she was having second thoughts. I assumed this was pre-wedding jitters. I was complaining about money because the wedding was way over budget, and we almost didn't make the final payments. She also went out with her friends shortly before the wedding - something she had not done for a long time. I should probably mention that she was young when we got together 9 years ago. She grew up fast, missing the part where many girls go out partying with their friends. Then as I said, a few weeks after the wedding she went out again with her friends. I think this triggered the thoughts in her head. As Jade said, she probably felt trapped, realizing she wanted a different kind of life.
So when we talked about the problems, there was me getting annoyed about money (a side she had rarely seen before), not going out with her friends (which I had never really stopped her from doing), us not going out enough (because of money), me never complimenting her on the way she looked and making her feel good (I gave up years ago because she always told me not to be stupid), and then the big issue was my close family - she had never understood this close family bond I had, and never really felt comfortable - I knew this because it had often caused problems in our relationship over the years.
She started chatting online through boredom because her business had folded. It started off as friendly chat. I even saw some of the conversation early on. At some point she started hiding her chat and began talking to this other guy. He saw her photos and made her feel good. She insists what happened next was never intentional, and she did not see it coming.
When she went to see him again after our chat and tears, she met his family who are much like her own family. They like to go out, get drunk, and swear a lot. My family are much more reserved - much more so than me. His family made her feel comfortable and at home. It was talking about this and family that made me realize our relationship was over, she should probably be with him, and I should find someone who does understand my close family.
When we had both accepted we were over, my wife said I should start going on dating sites because she didn't want me to be alone, so I signed up. At this point, I guess I was afraid I would be alone for the rest of my life. When we met, she was young and I was a 28 year old virgin. I never had the confidence to speak to girls, but we worked in the same place, and she dragged me out of my shell. I guess I was (and still am a little) afraid that I would end up back there.
So I guess we are both immature in a way. We could certainly behave like big kids at times, and for both of us, this was our first serious relationship. We learned a lot along the way, and from this whole experience.
We are spending most of our time apart now. She is just coming back at weekends to pack and collect more of her stuff. This will probably take a few more weeks. Especially after this weekend, we both realize that we need to be apart as much as possible. We know there is no going back for us. She said to me online last night... the first time was supposed to be a goodbye fuck, and she doesn't know what happened the second time. Once all her stuff has gone, she will be living 100 miles away, and neither of us drive, so this won't happen again. In the meantime, I think we both know it's going to be hard to resist each other while she is here. Maybe I shouldn't care, but I think this is a bad sign for her new relationship. I have no intention of meeting anyone else until she has gone, though I like to think I have more self control. I would never have done what she did to me, or even put myself in temptations way as she did with her "innocent" online chat.
This post has been edited by Jade: Tue Aug 06, 2013 10:47 AM
Reason for edit:: removed age reference
Posted Tue Aug 06, 2013 10:51 AM
Posted Tue Aug 06, 2013 12:46 PM
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Posted Wed Aug 14, 2013 07:46 PM
And I agree, she sounds like a shitload of trouble!
Posted Thu Aug 29, 2013 07:30 AM
She doesn't have any moral, neither for husband nor for lover.