My Pennis goes down during sex [Help] My Pennis goes down during sex [Help]
Posted Wed Aug 28, 2013 01:55 AM
Im 21 years old, `6 "1, 220 pounds, Good Health. A month back i started to suffer from impotency. ever since then it takes me a while to get a hard erection when im with my female. when it gets hard and i get it on, when i change positions in the middle of sex it randomly goes down so she gets mad, i tried those pills; libidgrow, extenze, ect... and they didnt work, it still goes down during sex, i have no std,
please help me, i dont want to loose her for something like this.My Pennis goes down during sex. i need to know whats wrong with my pennis
Posted Wed Aug 28, 2013 03:19 AM
Posted Wed Aug 28, 2013 07:23 AM
This post has been edited by spud14: Wed Aug 28, 2013 07:23 AM
Posted Wed Aug 28, 2013 09:17 AM
Tom is right on the money. You are too young to start having potency issues just like that out of nowhere.
But before you do, there is one very simple test you can do. Find some time when no one will disturb you for 30 minutes or longer. Start masturbating, and change position several times while doing it. You might start sitting on a sofa, after couple of minutes lay on your back or side, get on your knees, get off the sofa and stand on your feet. All this is to if you can keep your erection while changing positions but with out the performance pressure you might have if you were with your partner. If you can do this with out any problems, I would hazard a guess that nothing physically is wrong with you. If you do lose your erection, go see your Doc.
Regardless of the result, keep in mind that achieving and maintaining an erection is primarily a mind game more than anything else. It would be interesting for you to compare what is different back when you had no problems to now when you do. Some relationship hickup? Financial problems?
Posted Thu Aug 29, 2013 09:27 PM
Posted Fri Aug 30, 2013 11:52 PM
Before you start taking pills you should consider Horny Tom and Sir Foggy's advice. See a doc and get yourself checked out. At 21 you shouldn't need pills.
Also consider if anything has changed, eg., increased stress, problem in the relationship, drinking too much alcohol, sex more often and not enough recovery time, getting desensitized to porn, etc.
Posted Tue Oct 08, 2013 02:52 PM
Posted Sat Oct 12, 2013 08:50 PM
So when you change positions, do you go from standing or kneeling to laying on your back or stomach? If you are ok when standing or kneeling and go soft when laying down, I would guess it's Venus Leakage.
Posted Sat Oct 12, 2013 11:19 PM
Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 03:44 AM
Posted Mon Oct 28, 2013 02:14 PM
Hi d661 (Sounds like a street name ),
It seems to me this is a problem that's weighing on your mind a lot more than it is on your body. So I'd like to talk about that instead of drugs or supplements.
Firstly as pointed out before your girlfriend has the wrong attitude about this. A penis wasn't designed to stay hard for hours and hours, and doing so will actually begin to cause tissue damaged that cannot be healed. Though I'm sure she understands that sex is about more than just penetration, there's a lot more to do than just that. Perhaps a reminder during these lulls wouldn't go amiss. Instead of focusing on your penis, focus back on her. Restart foreplay, move her to a new position and explore her newly exposed parts for a while. Take the time to enjoy the trip, there are lot's of sights to see on the way.
Next you need to take some of the pressure off of you. Your girlfriend probably cares about you because of reasons other than the junk in your trousers. I'm sure it doesn't hurt your cause though, . She isn't going to leave you because you can't last as long as the guy in that movie once. If she is, she's probably not the person you want to be around anyway.
Besides the old saying is apt, "it's not the motion of the ocean". Stop making sex a competition with no one to compete with. It's a fun activity to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon doing. A great cap to a nice day. It's the icing on the cake, if you will. It's fun and that's where it stops. Start having fun and everything will come back to you in no time. You have my word.
As always, keep us posted.
This post has been edited by Pelvis G. Rodman: Mon Oct 28, 2013 02:15 PM
Posted Mon Dec 09, 2013 09:57 PM