Where I live Lack of SF type girls
Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 09:46 AM
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Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 10:14 AM
I'm not saying that no one lives in the states, just that a lot aren't.
I'm not really looking for any certain answer, just more or less stating what I run in to and wondered if others had the same problem. Not saying that I'm closed to any advice I can get.
I love this site and the ability for like minded people to have a place to get together and talk openly. And I hope one day to meet some of you in person, if nothing more than to just hang out.
Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 10:52 AM
Its not really a hook up site though, its a forum for all things sex related and of course we have our off topic areas too.
Have you posted in the personals section to see if there is anyone from your state in there?
Quite a few people have hooked up in different areas so its certainly not unknown but most of the people on the site are here to talk about sex, look at pictures, post their own pictures, participate in the community etc.
Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 11:00 AM
Yes, I have tried the personals, but nothing. I don't want to give the wrong idea of what I'm talking about. I'm not posting this as a complaint, just wondered if others were experiencing the same thing as me is all.
Posted Tue Oct 15, 2013 04:15 PM
Women are more open about sex here...but not necessarily more open to having sex with you. They're hear to share experiences and to learn from the experienced of others.
I suspect a solid 75% of male members here have the wrong idea about this site. Yeah, there are super fun girls that are ready to rock and roll that are on this site...but they're not here to find someone to rock and roll with, generally.
Posted Wed Oct 16, 2013 01:27 AM
.............or between the sheets
start talking to people
i mean get to know people
that girl behind the check out, or the girl on the train
or that girl that walks past your office window everyday
you just don't know who is out there till you really start looking (and talking) to people
Good luck and have fun
Posted Sun Oct 20, 2013 12:55 PM
I'm from kind of a small city, the two main cities and surrounding rural areas together have a population of about 50,000.
It's not exactly a tech centralized society. I never hear of people in my regular offline life discussing forums of any subject really much less sex. There's lots of freaky people, I mean a lot. Tons of women who would love the right opportunity to let their inner sexual beast off the leash.
But online intellectual discussion isn't real popular in general and especially for sex. It's either Facebook or one of the hookup sites, or in real life meetups.
I don't know the statistic correlation, but besides being a non tech savvy area, it's one of the lowest rated places for education. It's not full to the brim of academic types, you're more likely to find someone shopping eBay for camouflage tooth brush holders or new taxidermy ideas than doing research on how to please their partner.
Posted Sun Oct 20, 2013 01:32 PM
in general at first most men i "met" here expected my openness to discuss sex as an invitation to hook up and continue the conversation in private regardless of who they were and what i wanted. talkin sex doesnt mean that is my type and for me the public forum is where the real appeal is.
the site is sex concentrate lol, a bit more dilluded spread across the countries. good observations.
Posted Sun Oct 20, 2013 02:04 PM
It all boils down to why you're on this site. If it is to meet/hook up with some one than some other sites might serve you much better. Having said that, members on here do meet in real life. It does happen, and sometimes involving quite great distances. I always thought of it as funny hearing people complaining about potential meets being too far away. On here we have couples with Atlantic ocean in between, some who are in the states or Europe aren't exactly next door to each other.
"start talking to people i mean get to know people
that girl behind the check out, or the girl on the train or that girl that walks past your office window everyday
you just don't know who is out there till you really start looking (and talking) to people"
Posted Sun Oct 20, 2013 02:28 PM
Posted Sun Oct 20, 2013 03:09 PM
I think there are probably better sites to meet up with people.
I also think that sometimes it is better to meet up with people for fun, then explore sex with them, rather than try to meet up for sex.
Posted Tue Oct 22, 2013 12:55 AM