I've never cum from a bj........
Posted Sun Nov 10, 2013 07:08 PM
Posted Sun Nov 10, 2013 10:04 PM
I LOVE some of those ecards that site has!
It's never an easy thing to figure out. It could be a problem with relaxation and just letting yourself go, allowing yourself to fall completely into the pleasure the other person is giving you as they suck your cock.
It is VERY difficult for me to bring my boyfriend to orgasm with my mouth. In more than three years, I've only achieved it a handful of times. But I'm able to suck his dick and give him incredible pleasure for ten or fifteen minutes, and by that point he really needs to cum. He'll stroke his cock furiously for a couple of minutes as I suck on his balls (usually pulling both balls into my mouth), and when he's ready to cum, he'll jerk off into my mouth. And his frustration is not for lack of skills on my part - he says, genuinely, that I'm the best cocksucker he's ever known. It's for other reasons that I won't divulge on this board.
As for me, though, I cum easily from a blowjob. He can go down on me, and I'll be emptying my balls in his mouth inside of two minutes!
Posted Mon Nov 11, 2013 12:01 AM
Plus when I jack off. I'm going 3000mph...that may carry over. A lack of saliva doesn't help.
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Posted Mon Nov 11, 2013 01:16 AM
Posted Mon Nov 11, 2013 08:04 AM
I've only ever cum once from a hand job given by a partner.
Both get me very close but I do not managed to 'go over the edge'.
Doesn't both me any more, it is just one of those things BUT it has bothered a few partners, who have seen it as a 'failure' on their part.
Posted Mon Nov 11, 2013 08:20 AM
Sorry but when I hear that from someone who is 20 ....
It is pretty much like when a woman who has a hard time to orgasm posts about it and some guy comments like "all you need is my cock and you'd be fine".
Some of my partners have absolutely great oral skills but as others have said already it is simply not enough to get me over the edge. And, yes ... I am *very* relaxed but that is not enough. My guess is that for me only penetrative orgasms are the *real* ones, anything else comes as a distant second.
Posted Mon Nov 11, 2013 08:41 AM
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Posted Tue Nov 12, 2013 06:08 PM
By contrast, I recall cumming very quickly whenever I had one; I absolutely loved them.
My own view is that you have to feel a certain amount of trust in the person who has your pride and joy in their mouth, not just to believe that they won't bite or indeed blow! Maybe for some that doesn't make for a relaxed experience. For me even the thought of it makes me think it'd all be over very quickly if someone tried now.
Good luck with resolving this - it'd certainly be worth the wait.
Posted Wed Nov 13, 2013 01:08 AM
Posted Wed Nov 13, 2013 01:20 AM
Ha, very true!
Posted Wed Nov 13, 2013 03:17 PM
Posted Wed Nov 13, 2013 10:44 PM
I have found the 69 position is a little less effective for me cumming (probably about 30% of the time) though extremely enjoyable. I think the reason is her tongue ends up on the other side and is not able to stimulate the frenulum.