Human sex toy Wife and I are thinking about find a person to join us
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 11:35 AM
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 11:39 AM
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:06 PM
What is a lifestyle club? How do I find a swingers club or group in my area?
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:09 PM
Posted Sun Nov 24, 2013 01:10 PM
Google. You can find anything on the Internet.
Posted Wed Nov 27, 2013 06:57 AM
The probability you'll find a woman who'll do it for you without being paid for it is tiny. It is already difficult to find women who wanna do couples, or women who wanna fuck, period. And in your case, you have the aggravation that you want this woman to do lots of stuff to you and to your wife, like giving you both head, fucking both of you with a dildo... when is this woman going to get her part of pleasure???????
Even if you find a submissive, she'll expect to get some pleasure, too.
Sure, you can find people to do all sorts of things, including playing slave. All I'm saying is that it'll be difficult to find a person who'll accept to only give pleasure and receive none.
I've been the third, the second woman in 3somes a lot. And I've done things for the couple and enjoyed it. But I've never had anything to do with a couple who, from the beginning, had such an egotistical take on what sex between three people could be. It has happened to me to just wanna give, give, give, and enjoy doing so, because I enjoy being a sub. But I wouldn't enjoy it if the people I was giving it to had been set from the word go on not respecting the fact I'm human, too, and I wanna feel pleasure just like the next person.
I'm not saying sex should be about keeping tabs, but one shouldn't expect a partner to always be on the giving side.
Well, perhaps I've misunderstood your OP. If that's the case, ignore my babbling.