advice needed - found sex pics/videos of girlfriend with ex!
Posted Mon Dec 30, 2013 11:17 PM
Posted Tue Dec 31, 2013 01:38 AM
Posted Tue Dec 31, 2013 04:32 AM
We all come with a 'bagage' ... some of us are with less, some of us with more but we all do have it. About the only thing I am interested about my partner's past is if there's something that could bite my ass one day. Like her hubby whom she is still married with is about to be released from a prison. And he is known to be extremely jealous and violent type. Now, that is kinda important. How many guys have jizzed on her face is not.
jackson, problem is not with her ... it's with you. What made you go snooping and digginng in the first place? People don't do that just because they have nothing better to do. That is something you should be working on.
Posted Tue Dec 31, 2013 05:48 AM
Posted Tue Dec 31, 2013 06:23 AM
Posted Tue Dec 31, 2013 11:10 AM
Posted Wed Jan 01, 2014 05:08 AM
Firstly you can accept it was part of her past and forget about it and move on, which would include exploring with her whether or not she might like to experiment more in your own lovemaking.
Or you will never be able to forget those pictures and those things she did.
The first option is the best one, but nobody on here can make that call for you. It's up to you.
Posted Thu Jan 02, 2014 02:53 AM
She has chosen you. You need to make her feel like her choice was one she will not regret. You need to do what you need to do to get your pics in her computer!
I assumed you checked the dates on the photos. I mean, if you snooped you should have done that and you know it was before your relationship began. Let it go and proceed to get you and she in that computer, rather than she and he.
If you cannot live with it, then your relationship is over. Her past is her past, are you not her present?
Posted Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:22 PM
This post has been edited by Mark Aurel: Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:34 PM
Posted Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:41 PM
As far as the sex she was having with her ex I have come to see that every relationship has its own sexual dynamic. She is still with you so perhaps she is happy with a more sedate sex life right now.
This post has been edited by Carina2: Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:42 PM
Posted Mon Jan 13, 2014 02:48 PM
But like everyone is saying is true... it was her past and she has moved on. Now you have to try and let it go and move on also.
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