Am I boring?
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:24 PM
P.S. I know a few people on this forum who think im not boring.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:32 PM
Just give it time. You may have noticed that I talk a lot in chat and on the live feed. It took me about three weeks to get to know enough people well enough for them to accept me and to freely interact with me...and I am very outgoing (at least online). There are some who still aren't sure about me. That's life.
Hang in there, man.
Posted Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:42 PM
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Posted Mon Mar 03, 2014 12:45 AM
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Posted Fri Apr 11, 2014 09:13 PM
Then you'll fit right in .
Posted Tue Apr 15, 2014 12:02 AM
This post has been edited by Bakuchris: Tue Apr 15, 2014 12:02 AM
Posted Thu Apr 17, 2014 08:09 AM
Posted Thu Apr 17, 2014 09:27 AM
Posted Thu Apr 17, 2014 12:28 PM
But never fear, you can learn it! Try to hang back and see how the conversation is flowing, and then chime in with something whitty, maybe just a little dirty. Then hang back and hope to get an acknowledgment. Then do it again. Keep trying.
It might help if you found a woman or two who also was a little shy, and try text chatting with her in private chat. You might need to find such a woman on a different site than here, as many women here are not...um how should I say this, timid. The idea here is that the more you do it, the easier it will become, and eventually you will at least be passable at it.
Another idea, I am sure you saw men in the chat lounge playing with them self for the room to see. Have you considered THAT? It is a sure fire way to lose your inhibitions!
This post has been edited by spud14: Thu Apr 17, 2014 12:31 PM
Posted Thu Apr 17, 2014 08:16 PM
You want attention (not all of it good lol) you'll sure as Hell get it !
Posted Fri Apr 18, 2014 03:39 AM
This post has been edited by Bakuchris: Fri Apr 18, 2014 03:40 AM
Posted Fri Apr 18, 2014 06:12 AM
I have not been active myself in chat the past week because as I just not been in the mood for it. Before though, I saw you in chat and always saw some folks greet you. But often I noticed before, you kind of went quiet after that. You could always jump into conversations or bring up a topic that you might find interresting. And even though someone said, it is all about sexual topics, that certainly is not the case. It might be their prefered topic, but the amount of non-sexual topics get plenty of chat time in there and maybe even more so at times then sexual. In the past week when I still active in there, I seen the chat being used to talk about aliens, fighter jets, and a big favourite; the weather.
At the end of the day, just be you. Don't feel like you need to become all about sex and just talk about that, or act in just sexual ways. I know this is a sex forum and there are tons of folks who love to chat about it, either in PM's in the chat or in topics on the forum. But if you are uncomfortable, or out-grown talking about it, then just talk about what you think is cool and what you like. But as said earlier in the topic; you do need to put yourself out there to let people to get to know you. And this is done by talking a bit more and interracting a bit more. And if you feel that talking in the public chat is to much pressure for you, then you could always private message someone you find interresting. And the best way to start that is to be polite and not be like tons of guys who's opening line is 'do you want to see my cock / do you want to see me cum?'. Just tell the person that you find them interresting and would like a chat with them if they do not mind. Some people might not be in to private talks and one has to respect that. Just be polite and respectful, but also don't let anyone treat you in a bad way.
We are all here to have fun, and even though you seem to have not had much of that here, I hope the few times that you did were enough to make you feel good, even if it was just for a moment.
Even though you said you are leaving, maybe you will even stick around a little bit longer once you thought about it I wish you all the best and hope that you find what you are looking for
Posted Sun Apr 20, 2014 11:52 AM