it must be me
Posted Thu Jun 12, 2014 03:57 AM
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Posted Thu Jun 12, 2014 06:54 PM
If its part of her past now and she only wants to be with you thats great, but if she wants to sleep around allot or whatever thats another story. I guess i like it when the woman im dating is as interested in our relationship as i am.
Posted Fri Jun 13, 2014 02:12 AM
So how about walking her out the door and moving on with life, you've repeatedly said she lies constantly and the sex is terrible, so why keep her around?
Posted Fri Jun 13, 2014 11:52 AM
^ Making this type of comment wouldn't get me to open up about past sexual experiences I've had. To me, the connotation here is that you're calling her a slut by saying that she only knows how to get fucked and telling her she's not good in bed by saying she doesn't know how to fuck.
Posted Mon Jun 16, 2014 03:02 AM
Posted Mon Jun 16, 2014 03:05 AM
Posted Mon Jun 16, 2014 04:07 AM
If she is a kinky sex kitten for everyone BUT you, maybe make a game of it to try to get her to open up sexually to you. Like invite over other women or men for three way fun, and see how she reacts. Of show her some shockingly graphic porn and see if it turns her on. Or maybe tie her up, and perform bizzare sex acts on her.
If you can push her right buttons, maybe you too can enjoy all that wild sex you know she is getting/had elsewhere.
If you cant open her up to it, I would consider dumping her. If you know she is super sexy, but treating you like she was a nun instead....what is in it for you? Why put up with the cheating if you only get begrudging vanilla sex?
This post has been edited by spud14: Mon Jun 16, 2014 04:09 AM
Posted Mon Jun 16, 2014 11:50 AM
I'd have trouble opening up to someone who says things like that last gem of a line in your OP too. Which I'm sure didn't convince her any further to show you what she knows.
And besides, I personally don't like talking about my past bedroom experiences either, let alone to my husband. It's in the past for a reason, and it should stay there. Perhaps she feels the same way.