So...I've been invited to a heteroflexible play party...
Posted Mon Jun 23, 2014 10:21 PM
Now this WILL be my first such party, and, although I'm comfortably straight and all kinds of play & BDSM are offered, I'm not 100% sure going is in my comfort zone.
But, you know what they say about leaving your comfort zone...
But then this would be me going stag to the event, with nobody there that I actually know. So, I'm a little trepidatious, as much as I'm curious.
What's your advice?
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 04:19 PM
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 04:25 PM
Could you ask the person that invited you about the common etiquette at these kinds of parties?
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 04:48 PM
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 05:32 PM
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 06:04 PM
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 08:22 PM
I've never been to a private sex party, but I have made several trips to a lifestyle club. I went solo, and that's acceptable. So don't worry about being by yourself.
As for etiquette, common sense rules here. No means no, don't touch without permission, don't watch groups who don't want to be watched, and don't be creepy. Be polite and respectful if you want to be invited back. And don't get sloppy drunk, either.
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 08:32 PM
Taking the term "heteroflexible" at what I think might be face value, since I comfortably, willingly, and eagerly enjoy sex with both men and women, I think it would be a blast!
Posted Tue Jun 24, 2014 08:34 PM
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Posted Wed Jun 25, 2014 07:54 PM