Posted Fri Jun 27, 2014 02:33 PM
Posted Fri Jun 27, 2014 02:41 PM
Posted Fri Jun 27, 2014 02:54 PM
Thanks man!I'll try that
Posted Sun Jun 29, 2014 01:12 PM
Posted Sun Jun 29, 2014 01:45 PM
I searched the Internet and this forum and can't find your clit.
This post has been edited by gonewild: Sun Jun 29, 2014 07:59 PM
Posted Mon Jun 30, 2014 05:23 PM
Posted Wed Jul 02, 2014 10:31 PM
First things first. Make sure you won't be disturbed. Once she is in the mood, she may not hear a thing, and with her thighs on your ears, you won't either.
If you are as young as you sound, you will be trembling with anticipation. Those before me gave good advice as far as it went. Women have many erogenous zones, some more sensitive than others. Know what her most vulnerable are. Unless she's a stranger, you should have learned those already. Nape of her neck, bottom tip of her ears, underneath her jawbone and to her neck. Small of her back, tailbone, nipples (lightly until you can read her well), under her breasts, toes, inside of her wrists, backs of her calves, and I've found if you get as far as her inner thighs with your tongue, she should be pulling your head toward your goal. You can take shortcuts getting there, but why rush it. Granny won't be home 'till eleven tonight.
Positioning is important. For a first time encounter, I like her on her back, her hand on your cock, and you beside her with most of her available from your knees. You're headed for getting her knees spread wide, with her panting, and wanting it bad. Do not let her think about whether she is comfortable or not. She should be concentrating on every spot you touch her with your tongue.
With a more experienced woman, you can take shortcuts. But still, make sure she is responding before you dive in. At her vulva, many men go straight to the clit. If you want her coming back, build her orgasm slowly. That isn't always true, though. If she has her hands in your hair and pulling even before you get undressed, follow where she leads you.
A typical scenario for me with variations, is lying on my stomach between her legs, looking straight at her labia. Get her legs over your shoulders or folded so her knees are up. Direct approach for me is to the inner thighs or mons to start. From the inner thighs, playfully touch or tap her perenium with your tongue. She may tense up at that. Wondering which direction you're going. Don't spend too much time there. Stiffen your tongue and slide the tip upward slowly to the bottom edge of her vagina. It's much too early to try to run your tongue in here. Just a couple of quick flicks at the edge. Purposely avoid her clitoris at this point. Try some exploratory with the valley between her outer and inner lips, upward and back, flashing tongue here and there on the trip. See if you get a reaction from taking her labia into your mouth and gently sucking a little. If she likes that, run your tongue up and sown on the smooth insides of her inner labia. I would hope you have been paying attention to what she is doing. Panting? Moaning? Squeaking, whining or other sounds? Trying to close her knees? Gasping? At the top of her inner lips is her clitoris. Don't be surprised if it's almost unfindable, or swollen and throbbing. Do Not Touch It With your tongue. Go around it slowly. When you get to the join between the two lips, (the hood), spread your tongue as wide as you can and lay it across the lips and covering the hooded clit. When you get to this point, gentle movements in-place are in order. Hopefully she will be in motion or at least breathing heavy. Don't let her get bored.
Lift your tongue and with the tip, find the burried clitoral shaft which runs upward just as your penis runs toward your body. It's buried, so you may have to stiffen the tongue, and use a little pressure. Don't be surprised if this drives her nuts. I like to sometimes open my mouth fully and gently close it on a fleshy mons. Preferably sideways. Like a tease.
Reverse your path and if she's obviously really hot, pause at her clit, lift the hood with tongue tip, and dally with the bud. Pay attention closely to her reaction, breathing, movements, legs in the air, etc, vocals, and hands on you. Don't make her cum too quickly. You want her at the peak of the mountain before you take her to the other side in a roar. Back and forth between clit, labia and shaft, building, building, building. She may be pulling hard on your cock at this time. She may even tell you to put it in her. DON'T. You can do that later. If she starts bucking and jerking from her breasts to her knees, quickly plunge your tongue into her now juicy vagina, as far as you can. Keep it moving in there. Work the spongey flesh on the upper wall. If she's not cumming yet, I can't help you, or her. Don't panic if she squirts on you. Go with it.
When her passion subsides, don't work the clitoris any more unless she asks for it. Relax and talk softly to her. See if she wants to fuck now.
There is no user's guide to a woman's sex. There are a wide range of shapes, colors, sizes of vulva parts. I knew a woman who had a clitoris as big as the end of my thumb. Big enough to suck. If you date different women, Adapt to what you find. Now I have to go jerk off.
This post has been edited by oldkid: Wed Jul 02, 2014 10:33 PM
Posted Sun Jul 20, 2014 04:16 AM
You most likely won't be an expert the first time, but she will love the practice!
Go for it, you'll both be glad you did! And you may end up in 69!