Let me know what you think.
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 04:34 AM
What are your thoughts or concerns about this, for or against me? Different genders would be nice, because we tend to think differently on some matters, and I cant fully base my thoughts on just male thoughts alone - trying to be fair here. Thanks.
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 04:55 AM
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 05:09 AM
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 05:41 AM
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 05:44 AM
It's the same sort of thing...
She was in the mood, you were in the mood, she offered in a subtle way, you declined, she got into another mood and you say...actually...
Now... if you had got her in the mood again, been talking to her not watching tv, say rubbed her feet (to distract her from her pain) or kept some sort of bodily contact going to keep her in the mood but not causing pain, you might have stood a chance after 20- 30mins.
It was the wait, your crucial error was the wait in my opinion.
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 07:30 AM
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:38 AM
But on the other hand, i probably wouldn't be able to say no if asked.
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 03:15 PM
Posted Sun Nov 16, 2008 06:18 PM
Posted Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:03 AM
Posted Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:30 PM
I decided that since all the books say it should be allowed, that I will always try to understand and not get my feelings hurt if my GF is not in the mood. But that being said, at the same time I decided if my GF ever asks me for any type of sexual contact (or non-sexual contact) I will always give it to her regardless of how I feel, just so she does not have to feel denied.
P.S. The pain from shaving is valid. My girl uses a goddam pair of tweezers every two weeks (yes, every damn hair) just so she does not have to deal with the razor burn. But god bless her, it is worth every second of the three hours it takes her!!!