Posted Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:04 PM
Posted Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:42 PM
the way most women work (hell, the way most men work too) is that if they start getting involved sexually with someone else besides their main partner, it starts showing because they distance themselves from this partner emotionally and sexually, and they will tend to form more of a bond with that other person.
it is obvious that SOMETHING is going on with her. the best thing to do is to ask. if it seems weird and sends up red flags, like "something is up?" then something probably IS up. so just ask her what it is. but do it in a positive way.
what could this "something" be? i don't know. people do have weird hormonal changes with age, sometimes. also, there could be some weird medical reason? or it could be some other change in her life. or something could have changed in her attitude. maybe she has been reading stuff online? who knows? you need to ask her.
i think it's pretty clear to me that BOTH of you are really into this! and thats awesome
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 01:14 AM
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 04:23 AM
I told him about them and he was kind of ok cos he was the one getting it not the texter, but a couple of times he asked me if I were thinking of him or someone else.
I asked hubby if he would text me like that but he couldn't be bothered.
I am wondering is someone is turning your wife on, but she is reacting to this turn on with you not him. I say communicate and you will find out whats going on.
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:56 AM
Slap that ass once & tell er Q sent er that one
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 01:37 PM