in my perfect world, is this unreasonable?
Posted Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:38 PM
i started thinking about what i really want in my personal life right now...if i could have anything i wanted.
it's that little emotional bond, the simple stuff, that i crave.
i just want a girl that i can talk to, cuddle with, without having to be exclusive about it with her. i wanna be close with her emotionally a little bit and care about her but not have it get too serious or too filled with drama. i wanna hold and kiss her and tell her sweet things. i wanna sleep together with her maybe once a week or two, but with no sex, just cuddling in our pjs until we both fall asleep.
and i would wanna hang out with other girls too.
is that unreasonable?
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 01:23 AM
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Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 06:20 AM
I recommend match.com. Depending on your area, their should be decent amount of women who want the same things you want.
Posted Thu Nov 20, 2008 03:33 PM
i have had that kind of relationship with ppl before and it always worked out really well.
i am friends with a lot of girls though.
i guess...what is the best way to bring something like this up? should i bring it up before ever cuddling with the person or anything? i don't want to lead anyone on in a situation where they might think something would either be leading to sex or a relationship.
i have had quite a few bad experiences with girls wanting sex with me (girls DO NOT like to be turned down for sex when they want it, i think even worse than a typical guy) and...also bad experiences with someone wanting to be in a relationship with me when i still wanted to be single.
so i dunno?
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2008 12:06 AM