How do I tell her I don't like how she BJ me? I need advise on how to talk about this.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2014 03:23 PM
I just want her to do it in a way I can enjoy... But without making her feel like she's doing it wrong or like she's bad at it.
I guess girls are more qualified to answer this question but all advises are welcome
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2014 03:53 PM
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2014 04:57 PM
When she starts with the bj, just tell her to loosen her mouth some-maybe something like "it's nice, but could you not tighten your mouth so much when you do it." SO, just tell her what you like and want-bringing up other women isn't needed. Then when she changes tactics, be sure to be vocal about your enjoyment, so she'll know to keep it up and that you respond better to it.
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2014 05:12 PM
Posted Fri Sep 26, 2014 05:55 PM
Maybe I'll start asking what can I do to improve. I'm sure I can improve my oral sex techniques, she's not selfish so I'm sure she will ask what can she do too. I don't think she'll be mad, more like sad. But I guess it depends on how I tell her
You replied at the same time as me Joys.
Thank you very much for the insight
This post has been edited by Comps: Fri Sep 26, 2014 06:11 PM
Posted Sat Sep 27, 2014 07:37 AM
IMO it's best to talk and be honest,you will find your sex life will get much better,
IMO it's a turn on I love for someone to tell me to do sexy things to them,and I'm not shy about telling anyone what I like or how I like it.
This post has been edited by SexyFantasyGirl: Sat Sep 27, 2014 07:42 AM
Posted Sun Sep 28, 2014 05:24 AM
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:18 AM
A couple of days ago, I decided to give her a hint about it but in a subtle way. I told her "Hey, look at this book" and I showed her the book "She comes first", she went to the book description and told me "Hey, it sounds interesting!, is there one like this but for pleasuring men?"
As you can guess, I redirected her to the other book (I think it was formerly known as "He comes next" but it is now called "Passionista")
I told her "Would you like it if we buy the two books?" and she said yes! n____n
I am glad because the situation looks promising. I will learn how to get better at pleasing her and she will also learn a few techniques, and I will be able to give her feedback in what I think will be a constructive way
Posted Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:07 PM
Posted Wed Oct 15, 2014 06:48 AM
Posted Sun Oct 19, 2014 12:55 PM
She didn't gave me oral in the only occasion we've been able to be together, but she said she was learning some things about male physiology... asked me if I knew about the prostate potential and I said "Yeah.. but I think I pass for now" hehe.
The cool thing is that we now have the chance to provide input on each other's performance more openly
Posted Fri Oct 24, 2014 05:41 PM
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