How do I explain my feelings of the Hotwife lifestyle to my partner? / Thoughts on Hotwifing (Amalgamated Topic)
Posted Tue Nov 18, 2014 12:02 PM
Posted Tue Nov 18, 2014 09:33 PM
Posted Wed Nov 19, 2014 05:08 AM
This post has been edited by White.Rabbit: Wed Nov 19, 2014 05:09 AM
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2014 06:44 AM
I agree fully and in no way do I take it lightly. Our communication is getting much much better and in no way am I going to push it. We have many others things to work on but I know how to discuss those things. This fantasy with her is a touchy thing and is not mandatory at all I am fine with it staying just a fantasy. I know I don't make myself clear in this thread originally but it's really an " if " we explore this . I am just looking for comments on how others discussed it. I am aware of the downfalls that could arise.
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2014 07:40 AM
My question is what we're your experience with how others handled knowing about your lifestyle or desires? How do you go about playing?
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2014 08:37 AM
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2014 12:57 PM
Posted Fri Nov 21, 2014 01:55 PM
Yes it is but finding the couple or person is another thing and you can't control when someone else says something to someone else . The next thing you know it spreads like wildfire.
Posted Sat Nov 22, 2014 06:01 PM
As a single guy i cant offer any advice except that I hope you can find another couple who can keep this sort of thing to themselves. Good luck.
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:15 AM
For starters my wife is hot and I want to show her off. I am proud of her. She is not into it yet but she does know to an extent my desires. I believe at some point she will come around d but the other person will be her choice not mine , all I can do is let her know it's okay and even present her with options. I want her to feel so wanted and sexy. I want her to feel pleasure of two men. I want to get a different vantage point and watch her from angles I cannot normally see. I want her to let loose and be free to enjoy the ecstasy. There are just so many things that turn me on about this.
I am interested in discussing this with anybody and reading comments on this from any angle. I especially would like to hear from woman their thoughts on it if or when their men bring this up or even if it's your idea and you don't know how to tell your husband.
Stay sexy my friends
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2014 01:32 PM
With ladies , listening is a very valuable skill
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2014 02:49 PM
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Posted Thu Dec 04, 2014 10:29 AM
Posted Sat Dec 06, 2014 04:17 PM
What if people at work knew all of my sex secrets or even ANY of them? I don't know about others but that would totally wreck my professional life one way or the other.
The only people that know about what i do in private sexually are the people that i do it with and NO ONE ELSE in my 'real' circle of life has any right to know anything about that.
Posted Thu Dec 11, 2014 12:35 AM
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Posted Tue Dec 23, 2014 12:30 AM
You never know someones reaction, we have just learned to keep the two lives separate for the most-part.
Posted Wed Jan 07, 2015 08:00 AM
Posted Sun Jan 11, 2015 11:11 AM
My wife did tell a friend of hers and I did tell a coworker. My coworker was pretty much aghast when I explained that I was polyamorous and the reason I was bummed out was from another woman. I didn't really go into detail about the swinging stuff though. The scary thing was my wife and I were set to have dinner the next week with my coworker and her husband. I was terrified that the husband would think that the reason I told his wife what I did was to seduce her, but things went well and the subject never came up.