This is just my unscientific way of trying to comprehend the general female mindset.
I've pretty much decided that, as a heterosexual man, I want to have sex with 1 out of every 3 or 4 women between the ages of 16 and 50 I see. That's part of my man-dog nature, but, obviously, I don't act on that urge.
I guess my bottom-line question is: what is lust for most women? Women go ape-crazy for a guy when they're in love with him or if he's extraordinarily buff, but do you ever see an average-looking guy -- who has a well-fitting suit or a good sense of humor or a certain something in his walk or attitude -- and immediately think, "Damn, I'd do him right on the floor right now"?
Why I ask is because most women don't flip a switch immediately when they're turned on. Women don't seek out male strippers (unless they're out on a bachelorette party or some other lark), buy lap dances or pay for sex, usually. They are usually offended by pictures of a cock (unless they've gone without one for a while), whereas a man will be transfixed by the image of virtually any human pussy.
Ladies, do you have to have a backstory and attention from a guy to get aroused? Short of getting flat-out drunk, flashing your tits or dropping to your knees, do you ever send out signals that you just want to get laid? (This doesn't mean something you'd genuinely act on or the guy is mateworthy at first glance.)
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