would you let the amount of guys your new g/f slept with effect you?
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 04:45 PM
I really like this girl. She is amazing in every way. This is in no way going to end our relationship. I thought about talking to her about it but since there is nothing that can be done I decided not to talk to her about it. I don't want her to feel bad...What do you guys think? Thanks in advance....
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 04:53 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:00 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:22 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:41 PM
i dont know, if youre just looking for a fuck buddy, I say ignore it
if youre looking for something longer lasting, I would dump her
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:46 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:49 PM
I agree...there is a double standard out there that guys get a high five for the amount of chicks they fuck and girls get called whores and looked down upon.
It was her past...and would it bother you so much if you had also been with 25+ girls before her so you were even? I don't think people should look down upon anyone for how many partners they have..sometimes girls and guys go through phases of finding themselves and make poor choices you can't hold it against them. If you like her stick with her and don't let this bother you.
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 05:54 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 07:26 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 08:52 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 09:43 PM
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 09:57 PM
If the dude has screwed 25 chicks, then he and the girl who screwed 25 guys should be going out! no double standard...
The problem is you lose your dependability the more people you have sex with. What if youre a decent guy looking for a relationship (only had sex with 2 or 3 girls) and youre looking at a girl who screwed 30 guys. Whats to say that girl isnt going to turn you in for a new guy as soon as she gets bored? Chances are pretty high. Same thing vise versa with good girls and guy whores.
Posted Wed Nov 26, 2008 10:05 PM
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Posted Thu Nov 27, 2008 02:00 AM
Posted Thu Nov 27, 2008 02:16 AM
In this case, "style" (I guess you could put it that way) is more important than substance.
Posted Thu Nov 27, 2008 02:42 AM
A guy who bangs 25 girls is a "stud" . He can brag & get high 5's from his buddies ....
Why is it a girl who's had the same number of lovers is considered a "ho" & has to live down a bad reputation , not to mention how she's thought of & treated by others ?
Girls are human & I'm sure they enjoy sex just as much as us guys . Let's play on a level field & let the labels rot , "ho" bout it