Anal Toys Questions
Posted Mon Jun 08, 2015 08:44 PM
Over the weekend the husband and I decided to try some anal play and I found myself enjoying it a good bit. We went out and got beads and a plug and some coconut oil.
My question is, I think at one point or another I'd be interested in anal sex...however I won't lie the thought of a cock going in my ass scares me lol. So I have a few different sizes of plugs, is it safe to assume that over time playing with those that I will be able to handle him?
What did you do to get used to anal (both toys and sex). Any suggestions?
I'm close friends with several of you so some of you have already helped me and I appreciate it, just looking for other views
Posted Mon Jun 08, 2015 08:53 PM
Posted Mon Jun 08, 2015 09:37 PM
You might enjoy reading my blog post, A Primer for Anal Sex. I hope you find it informative and fun.
Yes, using plugs and dildos (and even fingers) will begin to stretch and relax the anal sphincters to prepare you for penetration. That takes care of the girth part. Before taking my boyfriend, I'll usually wear a buttplug for 15-20 minutes before he comes to bed to limber myself up and relax. I don't want to use the word "loosen," because people interpret that term when referring to one's ass negatively! He's a full two inches thick (pics of his magnificent dick are in my gallery), and I can take him easily, but don't mistake that for being "loose!" I'm actually very tight, but quite an accomplished bottom.
After I've prepared well (and I go into more detail in my blog post), he can enter me and bang away to his heart's content, and he usually goes on for a half-hour or longer, cumming inside me twice, and I'm in ecstasy the entire time.
So that covers the girth question. Let's talk about length. The rectum is 4-5 inches long, and that's what his cock will be in. It is a rippling, groping, hugging tube of muscle, and he will love it! But if he's much longer than five or so inches, he needs to be gentle. If he's 7 inches or longer, you'll feel a pressure inside you as he goes deep, and his cock hits your "left turn," where the rectum joins the sigmoid colon. This won't necessarily be uncomfortable (but it could be); you'll feel like he's going very deep, and stuffing you impossibly. My man is 8 inches, he knows he's big, and he's careful for the first few minutes; but then his passion gets the best of him, and he pounds balls-deep, and I hang on for the ride!
Those are some tips for beginners. For your man, I would say, be gentle, be loving, go slow, listen to your woman, and she will reward you.
Posted Mon Jun 08, 2015 09:38 PM
Posted Tue Jun 09, 2015 03:01 AM
as im licking her she sometime tell me to get a toy and slow work it in ...lube lube lube and slow
the a the right moment when she climax from my tongue with the toy working her she will ask for it ..
but I have to say its fun at time but nothing beat the wow from fucking her pussy even tho she can cum fro either..like I said slow slow slow ..lube lube lube and while he slowly pumping and working to pick up the speed try rubbing ur clit ..
good luyck and hope u enjoy
Posted Tue Jun 09, 2015 06:05 AM
love you guys!
Posted Tue Jun 09, 2015 12:11 PM
Posted Tue Jun 09, 2015 05:17 PM
Yes I'll keep posting here and keep updating this as often as i can so hopefully we can help others that are maybe too shy to ask such questions. and I'll let you guys know what happens... i want to go go out "stuffed" one day... soon so far i've walked around the house stuffed and that was fun...
Posted Tue Jun 09, 2015 06:14 PM
I often wonder as I'm out, and looking around the crowd, who else here, like me, has a plug up the ass, and is hovering on the very brink of orgasm?
It's fun to look at the faces - and the bodies - and imagine!
Posted Wed Jun 10, 2015 04:19 PM
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Posted Fri Jun 12, 2015 07:14 PM
This post has been edited by williamg: Fri Jun 12, 2015 07:15 PM
Posted Sat Jun 13, 2015 12:50 PM
I will let you know how it is.
It had great reviews!
Posted Sun Jun 14, 2015 10:30 AM
Would have been better if my wife had been pushing it in.
Posted Sat Jun 20, 2015 06:25 PM
Posted Sat Jun 20, 2015 07:56 PM
This post has been edited by the minx: Sat Jun 20, 2015 07:59 PM
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2015 05:53 AM
been busy at work (getting over time wahoo!) and everything else in life but I've been dying to update this thread!
So on... Saturday of last week I went from my small plug, to my glass pepper toy and then to my cyberskin toy all in one...session ha-ha! Oh also my short plug arrived the other day (finally) and its definitely one that I could wear to work or around town!!! I got a picture of my newest one in but its on my phone so I'll have to load it later. Tomorrow is my anniversary so we'll see what happens
Posted Fri Jun 26, 2015 06:08 AM
Posted Mon Jun 29, 2015 05:52 AM
I'm planning to dress up a bit this week and send him some naughty pictures while at work (both of us) so if it successfully happens I'll post them here too