gf's sex drive
Posted Sun Dec 14, 2008 04:12 PM
do any of you have ideas for getting her sex drive up or. she really WANTS to have an increased sex drive it isnt that the passion or desire aren't there.
we have started watching porn together to get her turned on, and that works pretty well, but b/c of her lack of sex drive the idea to do it doesnt come up that much...... also i would like any suggestions for good couple friendly porn.
ANY SUGGESTIONS would be appreciated greatly....
Posted Sun Dec 14, 2008 06:43 PM
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Posted Thu Jan 01, 2009 02:09 PM
1. Exercise. If she isn't exercising regularly, that will help most people have an increase sex drive and energy levels. Just going for a walk a few time a week will actually make a difference.
2. Hormonal birth control. If she happens to be on any kind of hormonal birth control, that can have an effect on her sex drive. Assuming this is the med you are talking about.
3. Echoing what the other posters have said, just giving her more attention, doing what she likes sexually, giving massages, etc. can make a difference in terms of actual incidents of sex. And sex begets more sex, so actually having more sex will sometimes help.
Although, I have to say being married for 6 years with a woman with a really low sex drive, if you don't address the actual source of the problem (the meds most likely), it isn't likely going to get her sex drive to a normal level.
Posted Thu Jan 01, 2009 11:28 PM
I seccond exercise, the hormones released by exercise can increase your sex drive.
Another idea is to just take your time and have a nice meal and a shower together. Spending quiality time together it more likely to get her in the mood.
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