Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 02:00 PM
Now the first girl came out and kinda told me that I didn't blow the chance, I just gave up pursuit too early. I really don't know what to do. I like them both. They are both way fun to hang out with and talk to, and I can see myself with either one of them. The first one is way sarcastic and likes the same movies and shows and food as me. The second one is all about the outdoors, which I also love. They both like sports.
Is this a win-win/lose-lose situation. Either way I'm going to maybe make someone mad but get the other for dating?
Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 02:39 PM
but it sounds like both relationships are still fresh enough that it's not really worth thinking over too much
i say just go with flow right now but keep in mind what's important to you.. similar movie/food tastes vs. outdoor fun.. commitment vs. no commitment.. sounds to me like the first one is more about the commitment because she's talking to you seriously. have you tried talking to the other one more seriously? that might help you make the tough decision when it's time to do that..
Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 02:50 PM
Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 03:16 PM
i don't see how you would be a jerk if you want something more serious but she doesn't.. it's just a difference.. and that's why it would probably be a good idea to talk to her seriously, to see if it really is a difference between you two or not..
Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 03:22 PM
Posted Mon Dec 15, 2008 03:33 PM
but that just my 2cents
Posted Wed Dec 17, 2008 01:07 AM
Posted Wed Dec 17, 2008 02:27 AM
You'll hurt her (whichever one you don't choose) more by thinking that she has a chance, and then finding out that she doesn't. If you're leaning towards the first one, go for it. It's not fair to you or the other girl to keep her waiting.