Usually I hear people waiting for marriage or the right one. My situation, no girl ever saw me as anything more than a friend so I've never had the opportunity to have sex because I would if the situation arose. Pretty bummed out that no sex and no dating isn't my choice it's a life hurdle, that's the worst kind of feeling.
People talk around me like I'm a child. No mention about hot girls or dirty talk, because they know I'm a virgin. It's just, hurtful for me. I've been called gay and found out people assume I'm gay because I have no girlfriend or I'm not married already.
People take it for granted, relationships and dating, like it will happen soon and if not you find someone else.
In my case I've never found anyone, and my age is making me upset because I wanted a family by now and I haven't even hit first base!
What's worse is having to block out my excitement seeing hot women knowing I can't do anything. My health insurance doesn't even cover a sex therapist to talk to, Ive had to keep my feelings hidden inside for many many years.
I came on here to see how normal people get to live and the stuff they get to experience with others, of course I've been sheltered from most of it so it was a shocker, I just hope I too can fulfill my sexual needs soon with a woman I like and who likes me back.
This post has been edited by mrsingle: Tue Aug 18, 2015 10:31 PM