long distance relationships...
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2015 07:42 AM
Posted Sat Sep 12, 2015 07:50 PM
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2015 12:26 AM
My father has a good friend of his who was in a long distance marriage, if you can believe it. He had his job and elderly parents here, she had her career and family in Spain - is that enough distance for you? I don't know how that started, but he would go visit her for a few weeks out of the year, and for another few weeks she would come here, and that would be it. And these were not the type of people who would be unfaithful to each other.
They're still married today; five years ago he retired, his parents had died by then, and he moved over there for good. They're still married to this day.
Are long distance relationships easy? Hell, no. But they are possible....
Posted Sun Sep 13, 2015 12:00 PM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2015 07:10 AM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2015 08:10 AM
Some truth in that...my mother joked that the reason my dad's friend's marriage worked was because they saw each other in person for so little a time, there was nothing to argue or fight about, LOL.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2015 08:38 PM
the more you two are attuned to the same life situations, the more the online ldr can progress. For instance, if you both are in a marriage to a vanilla and the sex is waning, you two can commiserate, plan things to get your spouse hornier, get advice, have cybersex when you are in need of a good orgasm, etc.
Posted Wed Sep 16, 2015 12:42 PM
Just something I wanted to add-
I don't require monogamy. So distance is less of an issue in my relationships as physical urges do not need to be repressed. When I am away from my partner, we can each fuck other people as we desire. No need to go without.
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 03:38 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 05:35 AM
but the "missing" of the OP MUST BE HELLISH
this comment is based on NO experience of a long distance relationship.
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 05:55 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 09:25 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 09:38 AM
Posted Sat Oct 24, 2015 10:06 AM
Posted Sun Oct 25, 2015 12:35 AM
No, trust me...it's definitely not just you...
My wife and I want our kids to experience a lot as far as extracurricular activities and what not...we sacrifice a lot of our time and energy to do it, and while we are still together, it has had an impact on our marriage.