Married Couples - How often do you have sex with your spouse?
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 05:41 AM
I've been married for over 15 years and just curious. Sadly, our frequency is extremely low and stems from something that occurred to her as a child. As a respect to her, I honor her wishes of not liking to be touched without her being totally on board at the moment. This makes for a lot of lonely nights for me over the years. Sometimes I wish this came to fruition while we were dating so I knew what I was getting into. We were very active when we were dating.
For now and for the future its just me, myself, and I.
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 06:49 AM
It used to be twice a night at least in the months after we met . . . .
It seems that many couples have solo sex lives like you, and it's a shame.
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:42 AM
Sometimes a weekend night thrown in.
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:51 AM
And then if it's a busy week 3 to 4 time
It it's depends life
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 02:42 PM
That was pretty powerful to hear and I didn't believe it. However, on another level we did exactly that.
I bought 1000 condoms when we started dating because after the first few months I got tired of buying boxes at the store. We went through that first 1000 in 3-4 years. This made sense because we were fucking around 1-2 times per day maybe 5 days a week. Usually we'd screw for hours on end!! Even convinced my doctor to give me a script of Viagra at 23!!
Well I bought 1000 condoms just before we got married. It's been almost 6 years and the box is still plenty full.
On average we take a jump about once a week. Some weeks it doesn't happen and some weeks we do it twice. I actually fantasize about the way things used to be frequently. Now I know damned well that it's the stressors of life, jobs, raising our son, health and family issues that has thrown her off. Really hasn't effected my drive in the least as I'm still raring to go on a daily basis. But her and I are different.
So yeah....get it while the gettin is good!
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 02:53 PM
Or marry someone who is upfront with her true sex agenda and not put on a front at first. She constantly wonders why I don't cheat on her because she knows the lack of sex or even day to day contact is stressful.
Posted Sat Oct 03, 2015 03:37 PM
Your not the only guy who is in this situation. There are heaps of guys like you in here in the same position. What girls need to understand that sex is just a form of intimacy, a lot of guys would just be happy to get a massage or spend a few minutes kissing, feel like they are wanted and not just pull down the shutters and ignore the fact that us guys have needs too.
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Posted Sun Oct 04, 2015 09:21 AM
try Viagra/Cialis/Levitra, or get a vacuum pump and some rubber cock rings for him. Better living thru chemistry!!!
OR get into sex that does not involve his penis! like role play, bondage, sex toys, cunilingus....
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