Do you encourage them to use Sex Toys
Posted Tue Oct 06, 2015 11:59 AM
Posted Tue Oct 06, 2015 01:39 PM
Posted Tue Oct 06, 2015 01:42 PM
Sometimes one partner may develop some sort of jealousy or damaged self-esteem due to feeling in competition with a toy. This might be similar to how porn affects relationships sometimes. But that's indicative of a whole different issue and needs to be identified and processed.
Personally, I am constantly looking for ways to spice things up with toys. This could be clit vibes or huge pieces of furniture (i.e. my Tantra Chair project). Her, not so much. Her go to is a simple coated egg with a small whip like structure on the end for clitoral stimulation. We usually use that for a second clitoral orgasm for her or when she's struggling to climax from my tongue. Just happens sometimes. But whether it's my tongue or the toy, the main goal is her pleasure. So long as that happens, we're good!
Posted Wed Oct 07, 2015 12:56 PM
Posted Thu Oct 08, 2015 05:40 AM
Posted Thu Oct 08, 2015 06:48 AM
We use them together, alone, on each other. There is no other way.
I can't believe people get hung up over using them, there is just so much pleasure they can give. They are a real enhancement to our sex play, we couldn't manage without them.
Posted Thu Oct 08, 2015 01:28 PM
My husband would buy sex toys and encourage me to use them. I felt to uncomfortable using them while he watched and really only used them by myself. Now I tell him to use them when he is horny and I'm not in the mood to play.
Posted Thu Oct 08, 2015 02:49 PM
Posted Sat Oct 10, 2015 01:12 AM
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2015 01:11 PM
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2015 04:21 PM
Get a vibe. Wait until your getting off together and she's all aroused, then surprise her with it. You'll probably won't be able to stop her after that!
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2015 05:28 PM
At first she never wanted to use toys. She was to shy. Our first toys was a little standard virator. She did not want to use it on herself so i said she coud use it on me to break the ice. She tickled my balls with it and when she saw that this give me a great feeling she let me use the vibrator on her. eversince she is sold....and we use them often.