Posted Fri Dec 26, 2008 04:55 PM
Posted Fri Dec 26, 2008 05:14 PM
Posted Fri Dec 26, 2008 05:16 PM
Posted Fri Dec 26, 2008 05:19 PM
Not disagreeing there, and to be honest I'm considering popping the question if our relationship survives my next deployment. (Not just to bang her either) It's just being a guy Nympho, it's a little frustrating...
Posted Sat Dec 27, 2008 02:44 AM
Posted Sat Dec 27, 2008 10:19 AM
This can be an issue, after all she is a vigin and has no idea what her sexuallity will be like once she does have sex. She may even hate it.... hey some women do. I do have to admit though that it is something to be proud of that she's waiting.... it's almost unheard of these days.
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 02:18 PM
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 04:31 PM
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 05:31 PM
Dick Dastardly said:
You are correct. She said that it wasn't "going anywhere" and called our relationship "ok, but not great". If that helps. We are still on speaking terms, so I will at least talk to her in the next few days, at the very least for feedback purposes. Note, after every relationship ends for me, I get feedback so I can figure out what to better in the future. I just don't know what to do right now, I'm out of scotch.
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 05:43 PM
Now, this is where you develop acting skills. Emotionally distance yourself from the situation, develop a routine which involves exercise, go for a run, walk, take a vacation somewhere - keep on top of the game and don't, for one minute, show any signs of moping to her or her friends. Don't ask her what 'you' did wrong (ie your feedback thing). Get on with your life (even though it's probably pulling you apart inside) and show her that you're a strong, independent man. Write her letters or journal till your wrists ache (just don't send the letters) - this'll get it out of your head.
You may find that she will respect you more for getting on with your life than crying over spilled milk BUT, always treat the future as one without her. If you guys get back together then it'll be on different terms and one based on mutual respect.
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 06:40 PM
Posted Mon Dec 29, 2008 06:47 PM
Can you imagine a situation where your ex asks you for feedback - I mean, really put yourself in that situation and imagine how that would make you feel. Would it give you a sense of satisfaction, power? Would it affect how you see your ex, how you respect her? Seriously, try doing this.