This post has been edited by Risky Rachel: Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:24 AM
What is something sexual that you wish you and your partner did differently?
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:15 AM
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:36 AM
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:46 AM
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:51 AM
Did your partner always refuse or was it after being together for a long time? For me, my partner was willing to explore at first but is very content with his "routine"
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 09:56 AM
No, it wasn't always like this...we've been together a long time, and I guess it's a matter of me wanting more variety lately while she doesn't.
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:35 AM
I love you entrepreneurial spirit, Rachel. My wife and I try new things. I am usually the one that makes the suggestions, but she is generally willing to try what I suggest, which includes toys, positions and role playing etc. We have a recurring role-play where I play the part of a latin masseuse named Pedro who comes over to the house, massages her and then uses toys on her before licking her pussy and fucking her. ...all while her husband is supposedly away. I love the idea of my wife with another man and the texting we do that leads up to their meetings is really hot and fun. See my story about my wife and Pedro here on SF here - http://www.sexforums...lsen-and-pedro/
One thing I have been suggesting that we have not done yet, is to bring another man or woman, or both, into our bedroom. Hopefully that happens soon.
Best of luck to You.
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:54 AM
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 12:03 PM
I'm in the same boat. A truly active partner is a much more satisfying experience...
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 12:14 PM
I would love to have it all again as we once did. The last time I actually ask for sex it was like sex with my brother ( don't have one but you get it). Very non verbal, I his end, VERY planned and just very bland. Ughhhh I miss our sex life like crazy!
Posted Mon Nov 30, 2015 01:00 PM
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Posted Wed Dec 02, 2015 01:44 AM
Now while I will still have sex with my wife anytime she asks as I still have a ton of desire it is more just the carnal attraction now, I want to screw her because I am a guy and shes a woman. I have learned not to look forward to sex other for release before the next few weeks rolls by. Sex is all about her and how she feels so not very satisfying sex outside of getting to cum in a real vagina. I would like to change that...
Posted Wed Dec 02, 2015 04:04 PM
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Posted Fri Dec 11, 2015 12:49 PM
I've been hoping to get her to open up more, which has happened now and again. Generally, when we do have sex, it's incredible. We just don't do it often. I've tried being more aggressive and assertive, but that gets to be difficult after getting denied a number of times. Again, it's great when she's in the mood, I just can't always figure out how to put her in the mood. It's difficult to seduce someone that doesn't want to be touched at all. We're getting better though. Through the summers, without the stress of the kids in school, it's almost a non-issue.
Posted Tue Dec 29, 2015 10:38 PM
...nothing. Our sex life is perfect and I wouldn't change a damned thing.