My ex and I (you all known the story of us breaking up) have been entertaining the idea of getting back together. We even planned to spend an entire weekend together next month to see if the Ďflameí is still there.
Well this weekend we were suppose to be going on a rafting trip up in northern NY. But we got in a little dispute and decided not to go. Little do I know.. She decides to go without me. So weíre talking today and she tells me sheís going up tonight and staying in a hotel with the 9 other people and coming back tomorrow after the trip. I ask where the hotel is and who is going. She says itís in northern NY and then tells me who is going..
TWO of her ex-boyfriends are going. Not just any boyfriends, but the guy she lost her virginity to and the guy she first did Ďthingsí with! Also, the hotel is near her other ex-boyfriend, Pat. The same guy who was her biggest crush of her life who she still likes and who I told her not to hang out with while I was dating her. Seriously.. What the fuck.
She has like 10 friends total, of the 10 sheís dated 3 and fucked another 2 on top of that 3. So of her 10 close friends, sheís dated/slept with 5 of them. And she doesnít get why I refuse to hang out with her friends. Then she throws this whole thing into my face like Iím the bad guy here.
It has nothing to do with trust, itís just the point! How would you feel if your ex who you were getting back together with goes off on trips with monumental exís of their past and doesnít tell you about it! Donít even get me started on what she did last week when she went over her friends house (who was her fuck buddy during the summer) from 10pm to 230 am and didnít tell me what she did.
So.. Do I have a right to be upset about all of this and make an issue about it like I am doing? Am I really just wasting my time and effort on her? Or am I the one being the ass.
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Do I have a right to be upset?
Posted Fri Apr 29, 2005 03:20 PM
Lil brother , think of it this way , she's like a rental car , now really do you wanna drive something so many other guys have had their key in ? Hell yes you have every right to be intensly pissed off in my book ! She knew you wanted to do this & ducked you on it "on purpose" ! Litteraly spit in your face , so to speak . Write her off as a loss & find you a girl with less milage & more consideration for your feelings . Your a young , sharp looking guy , so put on the clothes , comb the hair & get out there ! With all you got on the line , I'm sure you'll land a winner . Dont sweat what was , or you'll never savor what is