seeing your friends?
Posted Fri Dec 11, 2015 11:02 AM
the jist of is is that i wonder if there is a non assuming way you can invite people over and have them "feel" clothing optional either as the concept of the gathering or as a gradual "it just turns that way" thing?
i'm not trying to orchestrate an orgy but i have always wanted to have one of those kinds of gathering's where people end up just chilling naked together and maybe couples getting a bit frisky in front of / in the vicinity of the others?
it's a pretty far fetched fantasy i know but if you have any suggestions or even better, past experiences then i strongly urge you to contribute them in this thread.
Posted Fri Dec 11, 2015 01:20 PM
I think one way would be to talk with your friends first, as well as your wife and kind of set the stage in their minds first and then ask your wife to touch or brush up against your friend and see where it goes. Just be a little more friendly than usual.
I have envisioned my wife riding several different friends as we sit on our couch together. Little do they know what is going through my mind...
Good luck. It is a hot, hot thought.
Posted Fri Dec 11, 2015 02:10 PM
So... Booze is a good start. If you have a pool, and warm weather, you can get people mostly undressed right out of the gate. I missed it, but apparently before we moved back, there were a couple evenings where everybody spontaneously decided to go swimming, so everyone went in their underwear. They had toga parties too.
We're all midwesterners too, so it's not like we were the wildest bunch out there. Then again, we were a close knit group, and our party mascot was a giant pink dildo (just because it was hilarious to drive around with it stuck to windows, leave it hanging on things at parties, poses with it, etc...).
Posted Sat Dec 12, 2015 10:13 AM
i'm more focusing on nudity than sex for an experience though i would absolutely love to hear any stories about either spontaneous sex in company or ideas on how to get everybody comfortable with nudity.
Posted Sat Dec 12, 2015 11:21 AM
Posted Sat Dec 12, 2015 12:58 PM
I would offer that at a pool party, the ladies can get things started by ditching their tops. Booze will help. The first one might happen "accidentally" - a dive into the pool, and a top slips or comes off altogether. Once exposed, the woman in question decides simply to do without for the remainder of the party, encouraging others to do the same.
Once some tops are off, some playful, alcohol-fueled grab-assing may lead to a bottom coming off of either a male or female. Then, a what-the-fuck attitude might take over the party, and shorts, speedos, and bikinis all hit the deck.
Some piggy-back wrestling in the shallow end of the pool would be an ice-breaker. The girls up on the guys' shoulders, grabbing and tugging, trying to knock each other off. It's really easy to pull a bikini top off. Guys can help, especially with the ladies' side-tie bikini bottoms - as the girl is falling, "accidentally" grab that string as she tumbles, stripping her nude.
Posted Thu Dec 17, 2015 03:48 PM
think of a cool idea like 'playboy mansion' party or madmen. idk it's been awhile for me but you get the idea.
Posted Sun Dec 20, 2015 11:42 AM
Posted Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:08 AM
it's not so much that i have a female friend that i want to make a move on its just that i'd like to exercise a bot of my voyeuristic side. i dont want to fuck any of them i would just like to see a few friends naked and it would be great to see some of the couples "going at it"