My MIL had an extended stay with us recently, so i had to behave. She passed on her cold to my wife. It's been 3 weeks now. Not the end of the world, but i find the apologies tiring at times. I keep telling her it's fine; don't feel guilty. I just want to freely express myself without her feeling like I'm pressuring her. I'm having trouble establishing that i want sex, but don't expect it. She just seems to recoil, even if we're just cuddling. Again, we're working on it.
I'm probably most concerned that, when i expressed that i felt she wasn't attracted to me or interested in me, she has said it's not like she's attracted to anybody else. She's said that twice now. I told her that doesn't exactly make me feel better.
That all said, that conversation was otherwise very productive. I guess, at the moment, i am having trouble not feeling like the apologies are excuses. I feel bad for that, but that is how i feel at times. i've tried telling her it would be better to say nothing at all. She doesn't need to apologize for who she is, or how she feels.
This post has been edited by shadowt: Sat Dec 12, 2015 10:39 AM