Dominance-Equality-Submissiveness It's a confusing world, people want many things. What's your t
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2016 06:17 PM
This morning I had a thought about equality, Dominance & submissiveness & how they all have their place in the world.
I'll write more after a few replies ( I want to see what you think).
Do you think equality can really be achieved?
Do we always need some form of Dominance & with that some sort of submissiveness in the world?
Can there be equality when there is a dominant/submissive relationship between things
Big companies - suppliers
The list goes on.
The question seems like an odd one but try to answer the best way you can.
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2016 07:27 PM
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2016 08:37 PM
Generally some people do have to dominate in life because not everyone is willing or capable of taking charge. It isn't there thing. And with taking charge comes greater responsibility not everyone wants that either. May come back another time and say more.
I agree with this.
Far as myself, I am more submissive. Least I don't care for being in charge, or a leading position. I am more a follower. I am a HSP, and leading/dominance comes with too much pressure for me.
Regarding a relationship, I would prefer a more forward man who is no shy, and more a take-charge type. Doesn't mean i'll get it, but it is a preference.
With a job. I can work hard and do as I am told, but I don't want to be in any position of power. Boss/Manager/Supervisor etc
If I were to play sports, I could do that. But I don't wanna be coach, nor a captain.
Basically that. I am fine with handling just me. When it comes to other people, I am more shy.
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2016 10:57 PM
It explains what I do for employment , teaching female self defense & being very possessive/protective of the ppl I care about .
I just have a wolf pack leader personality .
Posted Tue Apr 05, 2016 12:27 AM
Posted Thu Apr 14, 2016 01:29 AM
I think it can vary, depending on the situation.
I know the poll is a bit limiting too.
Posted Fri Apr 15, 2016 06:47 PM
It isn't just our personalities that determine whether we are dominant or submissive- it's our environment.
Posted Sat Apr 16, 2016 12:13 AM
Posted Wed Oct 05, 2016 10:59 PM
I've been thinking about this alot lately.
It was good to come back to this post and check the replies.
Posted Thu Oct 06, 2016 02:45 AM
Outside bed... i can be dominant as hell lol
Posted Sat Oct 08, 2016 07:50 AM
But outside the sexual relationship, he and I are absolute equals - professionally, socially, intellectually, emotionally. There truly is no ego between us - both he and I are absolutely comfortable and at peace being completely and utterly naked before each other, and not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Our bodies, our minds, our souls are laid bare, totally nude, when we're together, and there is no judgement, no doubt, no condemnation. It's an extraordinarily comforting, ratifying, and peaceful place to be, and we treasure that honesty in our relationship.
Once back in bed, though, he again becomes the king, the master, the bull, and he will mount me, penetrate me, fuck me, and breed me, confirming our opposite sexual natures.
Like Firefly, I have a very demanding, mentally taxing, high responsibility occupation. It consumes an enormous amount of physical and emotional energy, and when I go to bed, I want him to take complete charge of me, to use me for his sexual pleasure, and to empty himself in me. If we ever found ourselves in the position of living together (it's a complicated story), his masculinity and dominance, and my femininity and submissiveness, would stretch beyond the bedroom to fill our entire home; he and I have talked quite candidly about that. I could go into further detail... And I would eagerly embrace that life.