What's your biggest regret, sexually?
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2016 03:14 AM
I was in the military and went TDY from my base in Ohio to an old Army base in Indiana about four different months a year. I had a girlfriend in Indianapolis who I would live with during those TDY's.
I was 21 or 22 and Barbie was a year or so older than me. She was not only really attractive, she was very open-minded and had a great personality. And she had a pretty good job too.
Barbie had a best friend, Tina. When we'd go TDY for that mission, we went in pairs. I would usually line my fellow Combat Controllers up with Tina and we'd double date while there. Oh, and, I never had any of my friends complain because Tina was just as good-looking as Barbie. I liked both Barbie and Tina a lot.
I remember on one trip, Barbie and Tina asked me and my teammate what we thought of homosexuality. They asked this right out of the blue. He was speechless but I, not revealing that I'd had a couple of experiences when I was younger, said I had no problem with it, but that I just wasn't interested in guys. It then sort of became a fun conversation about how most men fantasize about watching two girls or even being with them.
Later that trip Barbie showed me some photos of Tina in sexy nighties. Go figure?
After that trip I, as we always did, went to Fort Campbell, KY for a month, down to South America for a month, and when I got back from South America I had orders back to Indiana. So I called Barbie to see if it was OK to stay with her again and she said, "absolutely". It was afternoon and I told her it'd be a little late when I got there but I was on my way.
I knocked on Barbie's door about 11:00 or so that night. When she opened the door slightly, the lights were off in her apartment and she was in a sexy nightie. She opened it to let me in and then flipped on the lights. It was a small apartment and the bedroom was combined with the living room and kitchen and there was Tina in the bed that Barbie must have just gotten out of.
As Barbie hugged and kissed me, Tina was coming to us and she, too, gave me a very nice hug and a sweet kiss on the lips. They told me that they'd had a few drinks earlier and decided it best for Tina not to drive home until she'd slept it off some. Then Tina asked if I'd like for her to leave so Barbie could be with me alone.
OK, stupid, naïve, ignorant, dumb, me, said, "yes, if you don't mind".
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2016 03:35 AM
I can't pinpoint one specific occasion now, but I have regrets of not having more sex, with more men. We'll, it's kind of regretting for the future. I don't want to miss out on sex fun.
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2016 10:07 AM
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Posted Mon Jun 06, 2016 12:34 PM
1. when a beautiful sexy and intelligent girl, that you have met, flirted with for months, gone out clubbing with every weekend and even get into a fight for, asks if i wanted to sleep with her, ALWAYS REMEMBER TO SAY YES !!!!! and not say " no sorry, are we not just good friends" ?
2. the most amazing and beautiful swedish girl i met online, we had a good thing going for a few months with,but could never last, i wish i met her 15 years ago when things wasnt so complicated, and would of worked.
i have held onto these 2 regrets as a reminder of the amazing people i have met.
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2016 01:22 PM
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2016 01:43 PM
i'm here for ya if you want to make up for lost time hehe
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2016 01:44 PM
we can go back and cross a few off the list
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2016 06:29 PM
This post has been edited by Bathman8: Wed Jun 08, 2016 06:29 PM
Posted Thu Jun 09, 2016 05:20 PM
Posted Sat Jun 11, 2016 12:00 PM
Ill start the specific night.
At a house party, there was some obvious drinking going on and i was the date of a girl I had just started seeing. Her best friend was being extremely flirty the entire night, I found it very difficult to not respond. But I wanted to be a good boy lol and not fuck things up with this new girl I was seeing. I found an acoustic guitar and started jamming, her best friend as extremely impressed and spent some time just requesting me to play songs for her so I obliged. Eventually she said to me "So you work construction, and you can play the guitar, but what else can you do with those hands?" I looked up at here and I was getting the quintessential fuck me look. The devilish look in her eyes, biting her lower lip, flick of her eyebrows.
now, i need to clarify that this girl was 10/10. Perfect body, hair dyed dark red, covered in tattoos (arm sleeve, hip tattoo, stomach tat, thigh tat)
Since I had a few drinks in me, i responded without even thinking "why dont you come over here and find out". She wound up sitting on the floor in front of me, facing away from me and invited me to rub her shoulders. I obliged and she was quite impressed.
The girl I was seeing came over, kissed me on the cheek and whispered in my ear "im heading to bed, wait a few minutes and ill be waiting for you"
Now, me being young and very niave. I assumed she saw what was happening and was trying to get my attention. So I stopped with her best friend, had a smoke, waited a few minutes, than went to the bedroom.
She was completely naked, laying on her side in a sultry pose and beckoning me to come to the bed. So I did. I was going to take complete control of the situation but she had other ideas, She flung me on my back, and started running her tongue and lips down my chest and stomach all the way down. Her best friend opened the door and asked if she was interrupting. me being young, dumb, and niave told her that in fact she was and that she should close the door and leave. They both kind of looked at me dumbfounded but she did as she was told. my girl continued and eventually climbed on top, her best friend opened the door AGAIN and again asked if she was interrupting. I replied with "obviously, now shut the door" (the people we partied with, if they knew there was sex they would crowd the room and attempt to join, just the way it was. So I was eager for her to close the door so we can finish in peace)
We have some amazing sex for some time now, when her best friend again opens the door but this time she doesnt ask anything. She closes it behind her, and proceeds to take her clothes off.
I see her in all her glory, absolutely perfect, trim and toned body, nice, short, and THICK legs, amazingly wide hips, absolute perfect breasts.
She proceeds to get on all fours, and CRAWL to the bed where we are, with that devilish look in her eyes.
At this point, it dawns on me what was happening right from the start, and I mentally scolded myself for being so stupid.
I was also in full blown PANIC mode, as we had been having sex for some time, and I was at the point of no return. I knew that if this happened, it would be REALLY QUICK...
Sure enough, the girl I was having sex with climbs off of me and begins to suck, her best friend gives my cock a little kiss, and a little taste. I had 2 girls on my cock, and im mentally crying because "oh fuck im going to pop"
Her best friend gets on all fours and presents herself, AND ITS PERFECT, on her hands and knees ready for doggy, legs closed, back arched, giving me the peek back with that devilish grin.
I have a naked girl presenting herself to me giving me "the look" and I have another kissing my cock and stroking it, beckoning me to enter her best friend.
I blew my load all over myself as I was getting stroked, and for once in my life I wasnt happy about it. I was mentally scolding myself.
Her best friend just rolled her eyes and sighed, I didnt want to make an ass of myself begging them for a second chance. So I played it cool, went for a smoke, pretended to be satisified. Her best friend left while I was outside, and the girl I was seeing went to bed and passed out. So I didnt even get a chance for a second chance lol. I ended up leaving as well because I was so embarrased with myself for being so stupid.
I later found out that they had both planned this, they WANTED this to happen. Ive been scolding myself ever since, and its been a few years now!!!
That was my one and only chance that ive ever had for an FFM threesome. I regret being so stupid. Ive seen the girl i was seeing at the time a few times, but in passing, we never talk about it, and i never slept with her since. I havent seen her best friend at all, so that ship has sailed LONG ago...
My biggest sexual regret.
My general regret:
Ive been in long term relationships for the majority of my adult life. While I dont regret the relationships, I regret not giving myself the opportunity to explore sexuality, and experience what sex has to offer. As well as having more partners. My relationships were generally vanilla, and very conservative.
Posted Sun Jun 12, 2016 09:57 AM
I have a few. This is the one I think about most often.
Some years back , I was single and dating a fun young lady. I was running late for our date because of work so she came to my house just as I got home.
We went inside and I told her I was going to shower and asked her to look in my closet and lay out what she wanted me to wear.
When I finished my shower, there was nothing laying out for me. I was feeling like being silly so I walked into the kitchen, where she was and found she was talking on the phone.
She looked surprised at my nakedness and quickly got off the phone. She asked, "what are you doing?" I said, "you didn't lay out any clothes for me to wear tonight so, I figure this is how you want me to go out."
She got a huge grin on her face and said, "you are crazy!" Then she grabbed her purse and my arm and said "let's go".
As we got to the front door, I got nervous and backed off, I just couldn't go through with it. I dressed and we went dancing as planned.
The next morning, I asked her what she would have done with her naked man if I had walked out with her.
She grinned and said "I guess you'll never know." She had some pretty cool friends and a great imagination.
I was never able to get her to tell me what she would have done with her naked man if I had gone through that door and left with her.
I can't help but wonder, and I do to this day, what would have happened or where we would have gone if I had just through that door with her.
This post has been edited by CFNMer: Sun Jun 12, 2016 10:01 AM
Posted Thu Jun 16, 2016 05:31 PM
Well that isn't a regret I will have haha x
I've learned to live without regret, there's stuff I'm maybe not proud of but there's no point regretting stuff and letting it get to you x
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