break up help
Posted Mon Jan 12, 2009 08:26 AM
last night my gf of 16 months and i broke up. im only 18, and my previous longest relationship was only about 6 months, so for this to end is something pretty huge. it was a much closer relationship than any other ive had and far more serious, and being so different from any situation ive been in before im having trouble dealing with the gaping hole in my life that left by her departure.
how do i deal with this change? any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated...
Posted Mon Jan 12, 2009 08:51 AM
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Posted Mon Jan 12, 2009 02:04 PM
One thing though. The first instinct is to get another right away. Don't do it. Wait for the pain to go away some, you will chose much better.
Posted Mon Jan 12, 2009 03:45 PM
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Posted Tue Jan 13, 2009 12:54 AM
one more thing im unsure on. half of me wants to go out and hook up with some randoms and have fun with whoever i want. but the other half of me is horrified id even think about that. is that a normal thing to feel? and which is the right way to go?
Posted Tue Jan 13, 2009 02:25 AM