Could your S/O handle your past experiences
Posted Thu Jul 07, 2016 07:02 AM
Posted Sun Jul 10, 2016 06:26 AM
Posted Mon Jul 11, 2016 06:58 PM
Posted Sun Jul 17, 2016 10:07 AM
Allow me to elaborate before you judge me.
My S/O has a fairy long list of group/swinger experiences in her past during her wild experimental phase in college.
The fact that she's had these experiences, with other partners is not what bothers me. Honestly I wasn't even in her life during
that time so it's not my place to judge or be upset about it.
What bothers me is I would LOVE to dabble in group/swinger lifestyle. Not just for myself, I'm more than willing to include other men
in our bedroom.
However she has a "been there, done that" mentality.
So that has caused some bitterness and resentment on my part, as well as jealousy...
Posted Mon Jul 18, 2016 08:52 AM
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2016 07:56 PM
That was the entire reason this relationship started in the first place. We had an open discussion about it when we first talked about being a couple. I laid out in the table that I do in fact want to dabble and experiment in this lifestyle. I knew already that she had dabbled in this lifestyle and it's why I persued her (as well as the obvious physical attraction).
I would just like to have an S/O I'm comfortable with as opposed to jumping right into the deep end by myself. She agreed to introduce me to the lifestyle and be a part of it. I never had any issues with her past in fact it was never brought up. It wasn't until she had a sudden change of heart and decided not to that the jealousy issues began to pop up.
It's more self destructive thoughts on my end that in having difficulty coping with.
"Well why do you just have a threesome with this guy after a simple discussion but flat out tell me no without even an answer why...!?!?"
You get the idea
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2016 08:18 PM
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2016 02:41 AM
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2016 05:24 PM