My guy friend has a problem
Posted Thu Jan 15, 2009 02:03 PM
He handles everything to begin with... The bills, cooking, cleaning, and she helps out with utilities.
He loves her, but he's going nuts and he is afraid he will start looking else where for pleasure.
Posted Thu Jan 15, 2009 02:49 PM
it's another story if she's in a rut, cant find a job, etc.. but what does she do while he's cooking and cleaning? not helping?
eff that. when I lived with my girl, she got laid off and I made the money for us, and she kept the place clean and had hot meals ready for me after work.
the whole point of being together and living together is to advance your relationship, help and support each other.. and prove that you are the person that your partner is looking for in life. there's no happily ever after with a once sided relationship...
Posted Thu Jan 15, 2009 03:26 PM
Posted Thu Jan 15, 2009 03:34 PM
He has to let her know what he's feeling and give her an opportunity to help make things better.
If she doesn't want to discuss it or she doesn't want to help, then he needs to decide whether or not he still wants to put up with it or end it and move on.
Posted Thu Jan 15, 2009 04:17 PM
Posted Fri Jan 16, 2009 04:14 PM
Posted Fri Jan 16, 2009 08:35 PM
or tell her... 'lets start being friends again' .... cook together, sit down and do the bills together, go grocery shopping together, its never too late to hit the clubs and get .. er... very flirty with each other in there. get a little sex on in semipublic places.
Posted Sat Jan 17, 2009 12:13 AM