If you are unable to, or find orgasms hard to achieve, here's what you do. Get your lover to perform these incredible finger techniques - (apart from the 'G' Spot which is so common). 1. Double finger overlap. 2. Double finger (Cum to Me - this is difficult to perform, but amazing if done right). 3. Double Finger (push down)...incredible as it pushes against you anus. 3. The Eightfingerhardcore - extremely difficult and when done right will make you cum every-time. When you have recovered from the orgasmic rush, get your lover to then perform the 'A' spot technique (back and sides) - this is a very sensitive area within the vagina and will require slow process by your partner, before you will be able to achieve deep satisfying orgasms....and finally, you cannot allow a woman to have orgasmic bliss without her experiencing the most amazing 'C' spot orgasm. This new area is so sensitive, that when I have performed it on several of my lovers, they instantly achieve an amazing body shaking orgasm which lasts for several minutes.