Question about group
Posted Sun Jan 08, 2017 03:17 PM
I think that is what worries me the most, i.e. whether I could handle that.
Posted Sun Jan 08, 2017 04:30 PM
As one who had participated in threesomes with married couples, always as the third, I will offer that remember, you will be opening a door on your relationship that you can never fully close again. Even if you choose not to have further explorations, you will be a husband who watched his wife get fucked by another man. Is that something you can live with? It takes a solid, secure relationship, and it takes two confident, comfortable people in that relationship.
Threesomes can certainly be fun, but you have to be prepared with the outcomes.
All the best!
Posted Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:31 AM
Posted Mon Jan 09, 2017 08:44 AM
Posted Mon Jan 09, 2017 08:25 PM
Posted Tue Jan 10, 2017 01:34 PM
I guess this is something that intrigues both of us. My fear is not the sex so much as it is losing my partner. I think I could handle the sex. It's just the thought of losing my partner to someone else that is the problem.
Posted Tue Jan 10, 2017 04:14 PM
Posted Fri Jan 13, 2017 08:03 PM
Talk about it! Talk about it before, talk during to check in, and talk about it afterwards.
I was nervous about how I would react seeing my husband enjoying another woman, but I was surprised how much I enjoy it! It's fun to watch him having a good time and feeling good, and seeing the woman get off gives me a strange sense of pride, like, "yep, that's my man! He's amazing, isn't he?" When we talk about it, I know my husband feels the same way.
As far as "losing" your partner to the other person, if your relationship is secure, and you are both going in to this as something that is just fun, you can keep emotions out of it. My husband and I love each other very much, and when we play with others we are having an intimate sexual experience with them, but we know that we belong to each other, we are going home together, and we are staying together.
After we play with others, after they have left, (or after we've gone home) our routine is to have at least one good round between just the two of us to end the night. My husband refers to it as "reclaiming" each other. I think it's a great way to reconnect!
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2017 04:30 PM
We agree totally! Makes for some awesome after sex!!!! Very erotic!!!!
This post has been edited by happymarried: Mon Jan 16, 2017 04:34 PM
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2017 09:46 PM
That is so cute! And so romantic!
When my boyfriend makes love to me, one of his greatest loves is - after he has cum inside me - to continue fucking me, slowly thrusting his big cock deep inside my warm, semen-slick tunnel. I tease him that he's spreading his semen around inside me, "marking his territory!" In other words, he's acting quintessentially male. And he can't help but agree! He adores doing it!
That behavior of his make me know that he would do much the same as your husband, when we decide to invite another man or two (or more). After we've had our fun, and the others have gone and left just the two of us alone, he will take me to bed, he will enter me, he will cum in me, and he will spread his semen inside me, reminding me that I am his.
Posted Wed Jan 18, 2017 05:31 PM