Ladies I need your help
Posted Sun Feb 05, 2017 06:39 PM
I am a pretty observant person and can detect little things mannerisms etc in people that most don't give a second thought for example my wife has always pointed out hot looking women to me saying hey check this one out or wow she has nice breasts or there's one for you honey etc. more like a guy friend would do, but I started noticing her checking women out a lot looking them up and down taking in every detail not in the caddy sort of way a lot of women I know do except when some just shouldn't be wearing yoga pants in Walmart when they weigh 300lbs
Well one night after having some really great sex out of left field she blurts out "I think I would make a pretty good lesbian" I was a little stunned as I had just helped her achieve three "bone shaking" orgasms but I replied oh you think so she said yes I do I said one little problem your not found of sex toys (yes a general statement I know) her response I don't need them I have a tongue and know how to use it. This is can attest to is true. We continued to talk about it and not feeling threatened at all she told me how she loves the female body and how she thinks women are far more receptive to women's feelings and know what a woman likes and know better how to satisfy each other. So like her pointing out women to me I did the same for her but she always would come up with oh not my type o r other things she also included she would need to consume vasts amounts of alcohol to let go of her inhibitions I told her I thought that was completely normal. I like most guys joked about us having a threesome but she said yeah sure. I told her if she were ever to feel the need to explore being with a woman I knew it would need to be a private thing between her and the other woman she smiled and said finally you listen. Well we have a friend who is much younger that we are and who quite frankly is smoking hot she posted picture of herself at an event where she was one of the beer company girls dressed in a skin tight mini dress with her hair all done up and long legs and my wife openly commented on how she was hot and said now she is definitely my type and talked about having sex with her numerous times and joked with me hey she's your friend set it up. Well our friend lives no where near us or I would if she was willing.
So I know this is something thats missing in my wife's sex life and have ZERO problem with her exploring this and have tried my best to encourage her to peruse it but she has so many excuses I'm old I'm fat no one would find me attractive never mind some woman. I just told her well in your words I think women are far less judgmental and your may be surprised.
Ok so this is where I need your advice how can she pursue a lover or what can I do to help things along if at all? I will confess I am a bit jealous of the possibility that she mi hgt enjoy being wit a woman more so than she does with me sexually but as far as leaving me for her it would never happen she's stuck by me through a lot of shit where a great deal of women would have bailed so in a strange way I feel I owe this to her. If she finds relaxation and stress relief by being with a women then thats whats most important to me.
Your advice is sincerely appreciated.
Note: yes her pictures are in my gallery because I am so dammed proud she is my wife and don't feel she's a trophy but more like a gift I've been blessed with. When guys or ladies have checked her out as long as it was tasteful I didn't have a problem with it. I have a friend who is a lesbian and in a committed relationship and is a wonderful person I can not confide in her for fear it would make both her and my wife uncomfortable
Posted Thu Apr 20, 2017 08:26 PM