Posted Thu Feb 16, 2017 02:42 PM
Or do they just let them discover it naturally and hope the reaction isn't bad?
Posted Fri Feb 17, 2017 12:42 AM
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Posted Fri Feb 17, 2017 01:10 PM
But let's be honest...to some it really is. To some the discovery of a man that is below average in size is going to be a real disappointment. And in such cases it can be quite embarrassing.
I'm really curious to know how smaller guys deal with this.
And I'm curious to know how women who very much prefer average and bigger respond to it too.
Posted Fri Feb 17, 2017 01:19 PM
Posted Sat Feb 18, 2017 10:48 AM
Posted Sat Feb 18, 2017 12:19 PM
Took the words right out of my head. FireflyBiGirl, are you a psychic? Lol. Seriously though, to the OP, honesty is always best up front.
I would also say having good oral skills and being able to find all her "hot zones" and getting her off that way will usually make her quite happy and likely, if she has any issues with size, it really won't matter as much. Women have a lot of erogenous spots and a lot of the fun is finding them and being able to give her maximum pleasure in those places.
Posted Sat Feb 18, 2017 03:13 PM
Only on Saturdays
Posted Sun Feb 19, 2017 03:07 AM
Im on the low end of average at best.
I've not been with a lot of women so I've not had to deal with this much.
It was never brought up as an issue, though I always felt it was.
However, the last woman was not really a good experience. She didn't say anything insulting, but she was clearly disappointed. We didn't end up having intercourse even. She let me give her oral and I made her cum from it. Then it was over. She didn't want more and she didn't reciprocate.
Posted Sun Feb 19, 2017 08:47 AM
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Posted Sun Feb 19, 2017 11:19 AM
I haven't updated my profile in ages. I technically am still married, but separated. Not even living in the same country for now.
My size was never a big issue with her. She admitted she would prefer that I was bigger, but never complained. She was never really into sex though, which is part of the reason we separated. I never figured out after many years of trying if that was because she wasn't into it with me or just not at all. I really believe she just isn't a person with a high sex drive though. But I've always wondered if maybe I couldn't please her fully too.
Anyway, thanks for the positive responses.
Posted Tue Feb 21, 2017 08:24 PM
If you care, she will care.
Get your game up with your mouth and fingers, bring a toy into play and if she has an issue......SHE has the issue