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Posted Tue Mar 21, 2017 11:30 AM

So my wife and I used to swing with another couple. We had times where we played with both the wife and the husband and times when we had one on one Full swaps. After playing with them for a year or so we had a falling out. Mainly my wife and the other wife butted heads severely and we no longer were playing. The thing was that the other husband and my wife became friends and he did too and their friendship because of the other wife. Just recently the old husband from that couple wanted to play with my wife again, but without getting his wife's permission. Has anyone ever had this type of issue before? Have you had a time where one partner from a previous consensual open swinging relationship had it turn into wanting to get some fun on the side outside of swapping? For full disclosure my wife said no she didn't want to be sneaking around the other wife no matter how much they butted heads.

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Posted Wed Mar 22, 2017 02:45 AM

I would say that was a good call on ur wifes part
open is open but if u 4 all agreed to only do it together and that's the rules stand by the rules

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Posted Fri Mar 24, 2017 12:45 AM

D M, on Wed Mar 22, 2017 05:45 PM, said:

I would say that was a good call on ur wifes part
open is open but if u 4 all agreed to only do it together and that's the rules stand by the rules

DM is 100% right.

I know that I am reading between the lines here but it sounds like your wife is a better lover than the other guys wife is.

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Posted Fri Mar 24, 2017 04:38 AM

it is entirely up to your wife to decide. If she feels uncomfortable, that is the end of it.

But knowing the other couple were swingers, it is not like the husband would have been violating too many rules here.

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Posted Fri May 05, 2017 06:41 PM

Tell him to get lost. Your wife is smart in saying no. He don't care about you or your wife. Your wife must be great at sex because that is all he wants. I would never allow him near her again.