Fantasies versus Reality
Posted Fri May 19, 2017 02:30 AM
Posted Fri May 19, 2017 10:21 AM
Posted Fri May 19, 2017 02:54 PM
That said... quite some time ago, before kids, when we had a circle of friends that partied together a lot... A lady friend of ours grabbed my ass, and tried to kiss my wife.... er, she did kiss her, but only got a peck in, and received a lot of giggling, and a, "You're so drunk". Hmm... "this" close. Maybe after all this time, her interests have changed. *shrug* Then again, we did run off to the bathroom to play (just my wife and I, to be clear). I don't know if it would have played out different if a guy friend made that move, but I doubt it. She's self admittedly rather victorian regarding sex much of the time. Not all the time, but much of the time.
Posted Fri May 19, 2017 06:07 PM
This was the same for us. I think starting with adding a single person was easier to get used to the new experience. Finding a single guy is MUCH easier than finding a single girl! I think the reason that was a good choice for us is that my hubby was more comfortable than I was to begin with, and so he got another guy and focused on me as the center of attention. That was fun, and eased me into enjoying group fun.
For me- starting with a couple would have made me MORE nervous, but now that we play regularly, we much prefer foursomes to threesomes.
Posted Fri May 19, 2017 10:51 PM
Posted Sat May 20, 2017 09:30 AM
Posted Sat May 20, 2017 10:26 AM
I saw the thread on this, and even gor CM to agree lol... Its aweasome!!
Thank you all for responding... Interesting to be reading those who went the whole 9 yards, and those of us who dribble around in fantasy land. But i have to say Q does have a point there. The mind can conjur up the perfect scenarios , while reality will fall short by miles. Got me convinced to stay i fantasy land
Posted Sat May 20, 2017 10:28 AM
Posted Sat May 20, 2017 11:44 AM