Giving anal to my wife
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 11:19 AM
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 04:45 PM
In addition to what I offer in my Primer, I would add (from looking at your pics) that it appears you have a delightfully big cock, and quite thick. You should spend a good 10-15 minutes, perhaps even more, dilating and relaxing her. But it's not a chore - this is some of the most delightful foreplay imaginable! As she lays prone for you, her legs spread to give you access, she gets to relax and enjoy the sensations as you use your lips, tongue, and fingers getting her sweet back door relaxed, dilated, and limber (I don't like to use the word "loose," because that's not what's happening). Use a finger to tease her open, caressing her from the inside by curling your finger a bit. With one finger in her, give gentle tugs as you twist your finger in her ass, applying lateral pressure as you stretch her sphincters. This process, first with one finger, then with two, with stretch the sphincter muscles, relaxing and limbering them up to prepare them for penetration.
I have to add that as a bottom, what I've described above is absolute HEAVEN! When I lay on my stomach for my boyfriend and he begins working on my tight "pussy" as I just relax and float away in the ecstasy, I'm off in a place that almost can't be described. The entire time his tongue and fingers are in me, his dick is almost impossibly hard, because - of course - he loves playing with my snug little hole as much as I love having my little hole played with! But he's also impossibly hard because he knows in a a few minutes, his big dick will be buried balls-deep in the blissful, warm, caressing confines of my tight butt, and he adores fucking me in the ass more than anything. But he takes his time and doesn't rush because he knows MY pleasure depends on the work he does to prepare me before he mounts and penetrates me.
Lastly, use a good-quality lube. Water-based lubricants are best for most people, as some can be sensitive to silicone-based lubes (I know I am). My boyfriend and I use Astroglide in the purple tube - it's simple, clean, classic, and it makes for a delicious ride! Oh, and nothing else. That's his bare cock in me, and neither he nor I would have it any other way. We're tested, clean, devoted, partnered; we both adore bareback anal - the profound, uninhibited intimacy; the pure, lusty pleasure undiluted by the presence of a condom; and the freedom to enjoy and to please each other fully, completely.
Of course, I'm always happy to answer anything I can, so feel free to add to this thread, or PM if you'd like. Best to you and your wife!
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 07:32 PM
My friend, you have been blessed beyond belief! You better be worshiping the ground that she walks on.
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 07:37 PM
This post has been edited by Paul Cain: Sun May 28, 2017 07:38 PM
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 08:01 PM
LOL..appreciate the thought, but I don't think I need to be worshipped unless it is a mutual worship of each other
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 08:19 PM
I beg to differ, my dear. There are men out there, myself included, who are not permitted to even look at their lover's asshole, let alone touch it or fuck it. He's asking for help on how to better please you and your anal desires. That's a blessing for him that is clearly beyond your comprehension (unless you've experienced it from the other side). I say that in the kindest of ways.
Perhaps you can share some pictures of that pretty asshole of yours that he's trying to please.
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 09:53 PM
Goodness, Paul! Thank you so much for those incredibly kind words! And I would say the same of you!
I do hope you've been well!
Posted Sun May 28, 2017 10:48 PM
Posted Mon May 29, 2017 11:44 AM
I do hope you've been well!
Been busy with life, but doing well. I hope the same for you!
Posted Mon May 29, 2017 11:45 AM
Such a hot picture! Your husband is a lucky man.
I LOVE that hair!
Posted Mon May 29, 2017 12:25 PM
I LOVE that hair!
*blush* well thank you
Posted Wed May 31, 2017 07:18 AM
Posted Thu Jun 01, 2017 08:00 AM
Honeypie, is that you two or some random photo? If that's your husband, that's a nice cock and set of balls there. Love to suck it while he's getting fucked!
Posted Thu Jun 01, 2017 04:14 PM
Lolz that's a week? For real? Girl, I SO wish I had your luck! Half a day unshaven and I turn into a cheese grater down there
Posted Thu Jun 01, 2017 06:36 PM
Yup! For me that is "hairy" because I shave every 2-3 days. It drove me crazy when I was pregnant and I could no longer shave at all. I like to be all smooth, makes even masturbation feel better for me.
Posted Thu Jun 01, 2017 07:02 PM
And best of luck with your joint anal adventures. Have fun.
Posted Sun Jun 04, 2017 01:10 PM
He is one lucky guy !!! You using that strap-on must be bliss.
Posted Sat Jun 10, 2017 06:41 PM
My dear, I'd love to lick your "cheese grater."
Pics please? If you so desire, of course. I'll bet your cheese grater smells amazing too! Mmmmm.