Opening our marriage Advice needed
Posted Sat Jun 17, 2017 03:43 AM
So i asked my wife is she was opposed to opening our relationship. I was a bit shocked to hear that she is completely open to the idea. I guess a big reason why is the reasoning behind it. When we first started dating she dabbled alot into the bdsm scene. She enjoyed it as did I, but i guess for her it was just an experimental phase. For myself it isn't and it never has been, i enjoy that lifestle and it's something I need. Since we had children there just isn't any room for that lifestyle in my home anymore. So she is willing to allow me to get out there and live that lifestyle with others. Her stipulation BEFORE WE open up is that we get our relationship to 100%. Which is entirely fair enough
My questions are:
1: is this a trap? Lmao it seems to good to be true I'm worried
2: if it isn't a trap, how the heck can I find partners? My friends who opened their relationships said it took FOREVER to find partners as once they heard "married" they ran for the hills. Disbelieving the relationship is open.
3: from your experience: what are some pros and cons? If like to hear any and all good or bad.
4: jealousy will obviously arise, how can this be managed?
Thanks all for reading! Hope to hear from the lot of you
Posted Sat Jun 17, 2017 03:58 AM
Posted Sun Jun 18, 2017 01:03 AM
Posted Sun Jun 18, 2017 10:57 AM
I'm about as sexually dissatisfied as I've ever been, and she knows it. We didn't fight or argue, we had a nice long talk about how each other is feeling. She told me that since shes become a mother she just can't see herself being that person anymore. She understands my frustrations, and we went from either splitting due to sexual incompatibility or opening u0 our relationship. I opted for open, And she agreed.
Its kind of a damned if you do damned if you don't
Posted Sun Jun 18, 2017 10:37 PM
Posted Tue Jun 20, 2017 11:59 AM
Well said, Q.
Posted Tue Jun 20, 2017 12:39 PM
So can you take it if she is getting all sorts of cock, and you get the random once a year pussy?
Posted Fri Jun 23, 2017 03:18 PM
This however would be my wife's first foray into open relationships, and my worry is jealousy from her end. As well as finding partners for myself as I'm no longer in the swinger community. The people I all knew are all married committed with families and stopped with the lifestyle
Posted Mon Jun 26, 2017 02:25 PM