First some background- hubby and I have been playing with others (though always together) for about 2 years now. (All combinations, mfm, fmf, mfmf) we have both realized, accepted, and embraced our bisexuality. We have been with some people only once, some several times, and will sometimes hang out with them outside the bedroom. (Though it usually leads there) through all of this, we've actually grown closer than ever as a couple, largely because we talk about everything CONSTANTLY.
Now- we met a new couple, were attracted and liked them right away. We started hanging out with them pretty often, and the sex between all four of us is amazing, but we get together even when there is no possibility of sex, because we really just like spending time with them. We've even gotten to know each other's kids. They are a poly couple, and have full relationships outside of their marriage, but have never found a couple before that they want to be with TOGETHER until we came along. We have never really developed this kind of connection with anyone before, but we are both really into both of them, and have acknowledged that the way we feel about them is much different than the couples that we've played with. A bond is developing, and we both feel good about it, but neither of us thinks we could be fully "polyamorous" because as much as we like them, neither of us can imaging actually LOVING someone other than each other.
Really, I'm not looking for advice, because right now I'm very happy with the way things are going, I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced anything like this? I'd love to hear some experiences!
This post has been edited by M's wifey: Wed Oct 04, 2017 08:28 PM