how to approach bf about anal?
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 02:02 AM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 02:34 AM
If you can't do that... check out some anal pornos to turn on the idea to him... he should start to think about doing you like that as he's watching it.. and maybe ask you If not.. ask him if he'd ever do that to a girl and when he answers yes.. tell him you'd like to try it. If he says no.. tell him "I don't know... might be sexy" but with a nonchalant attitude
I still say just telling him you want it would be the hottest and sexiest approach though
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 02:55 AM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 06:12 AM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 07:43 AM
Ask him in a general conversation:
"Hey Mr Gorgeous..? Well, I was thinking......If it isn't too much to ask..... would you mind if....... perhaps, one night...... and I don't mean tonight of course babe....... But could you try.......well, I'm a bit embarrased...... but I would like you to.......perhaps.......hmmmmmm....... fuck my ass..? That wouldn't be too rude....... would it..?".
Now he'll either say yes.......or no.!
There is another way, of course:
While he's taking you from behind, and BEFORE you pass him up a small, well lubricated dildo, say this:
"Ohhh yeah..... I love it...! yeahhhhh......Hmmmm, ride me babe........ Ohhh that's it, you're so gooood.......Hmmmmmmm..........Hey...... can ya just......slip this into my..........ass..?"
Hey, they both worked for me...!
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:10 AM
Bob Mackadoo said:
I'd like to see that!!
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:41 AM
That'd damnsure do it for me!!!!!! Listen to the Jazzy-One.
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:17 PM
That made me laugh.
Maybe start up a conversation about what he'd like to try in the bedroom and when it's your turn - tell him. If you don't he'll never know.
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:27 PM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 01:05 PM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 01:17 PM
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 05:07 PM
Reiterate that you've never done it before and that you want to share this new experience with him.
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 07:13 PM
one night we were in the shower and he had me pushed up against the wall fucking me and i just grabbed his cock and teased him by putting it against my ass and grinding on him... after that he was harder than a rock and he got the hint when i gave him a smirk
Posted Sun Mar 01, 2009 12:59 PM
Men want women to guide them into being better lovers. We want women to take control in the bedroom and tell us what they want or need us to do. So just take control and let him know that he is about to share something special with you.
If it does work out for you and he has never done something like this before please make sure you take it slow at first. Make sure you are well lubricated and that he penetrates you slowly untill you are comfortable. If at any time you find the experience uncomfortable or painfull stop immediatly and try again at a later stage.