Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 03:27 AM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 04:47 AM
If you find you're really depressed and can't get your head in the right place you should really look at getting some professional help. And there are some really great people on this forum that I'm sure can offer better advice than me
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 06:04 AM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:35 PM
That's how it happened for me as well. It just came along and took me by suprise.
Please don't turn into one of them. It's a huge turn off in my opinion and those relationships don't last long. I can see how you might be down because you've been through a lot, but don't give up.
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 01:41 PM
I'll have to work on that myself.
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 05:26 PM
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 12:23 AM
lol, yeah. Internet forum and drunkeness not the best idea
Thanks for everyone's good words though... very much appreciated.
Posted Fri Feb 27, 2009 05:17 PM
It's not the alcohol and internet mix that's bad, but maybe your approach. At least you can see what you don't want to become... that is like one of those a**hole guys who always seem to get the girl. Personally, I think that's a myth, but that's another topic altogether.
I can see that you're looking for a relatively attractive girl, and that's a valid expectation. What I would suggest is that you think about the non-physical traits that you'd like to find in a girlfriend, and change to a venue where you'd have a better chance to find that type of girl. I wish I could tell you more, but your taste in women is rather broad, and I'm not quite certain of the type of women you currently deal with.
One advice though, and this is not with the purpose of passing judgement, keep your alcohol under control, and distance yourself from people who drink too much. This is something that would definitely curtail your chances of building a meaningful relationship.
Posted Fri Feb 27, 2009 05:28 PM
If you give up on your standards you are giving up on yourself!