one night stand??
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 07:05 PM
We start the movie, get a glass of some vodka and started talking... we ended up talking for basically the whole movie (i dont remember a minute of it). We ended up having a lot more in common than we thought and i was feeling the vodka a little bit (I drank earilier that night as well) so i was kind of showing off my assets on purpose lol... he kissed me and instantly things got really hot.. Well we ended up sleeping together that night...
This was the first time i had basically had a one night stand but it was weird because he was really sweet and passionate even after everything...
Could this mean there may be more to come?? Or did i blow it by sleeping with him... we both ended up talking about how we didnt expect that to happen but how i definantly didnt regret anythign lol We planned a date and what not so I kknow i will be seeing him again... Do you think i blew it by sleeping with him? Guys, will he continue to just look at me as a hot piece of ass lol
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 09:13 PM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 09:34 PM
Posted Wed Feb 25, 2009 10:21 PM
Some of my best relationships have been from one night stands.
A date already set up is a good sign.
If you want to make sure it's not just about a good piece of ass then don't sleep with him after your date and see if he asks for another. If he does then I would say he is into more then just your body and sex.
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 01:14 AM
I think the best would be to not rush things and just take it day by day
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 09:30 AM
the game: courtship,holding out, making him work for it.
my take: the game is very important if either 1) there is not the substance between 2 people for something long term, and you need to artificially make it last longer by game-playing; or 2) it's not immediately obvious that there is such substance, and you want to play it safe.
i don't think the game is necessary if 1) you're willing to take a chance, and you're smart and mature enough to figure it out on the fly, even if sex might make it more tricky to discern, this also entails being willing to walk away if it turns out to be something you don't want; or 2) it's immediately obvious that there's substance, and both people are on the same page, and neither is going to judge the other for making the decision to have sex on the first date.
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 03:38 PM
my relationship with my current bf was a one night stand gone right! were now together nearly 9months and i havent even kissed an other person since i first met him. i didnt really know him before i slept with him, we'd been in kickboxing together for a few years but after i quit i didnt see him again untill the night i slept with him, even if i didnt i think i'd still be with him today!!!
go for it, if yous have arranged a date he obv likes you too, hope everything works out for the best!!!
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 03:43 PM
This is so true! You never know.
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:05 PM
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:09 PM
I went almost a month with my past bf without having sex so when i was single I had a little bit too much built up
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:17 PM
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:27 PM
And yes... it was def like a bomb going off... lol dont regret it one bit... nice 3 hours of crazy sex
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:27 PM
If there was an altar of sex I'd worship you.
Posted Thu Feb 26, 2009 06:30 PM
Posted Fri Feb 27, 2009 10:28 AM
yea but they get to do the dating part now!
me nd me bf had had sex, yet it was still awkward when we went cinema, figure that one out! lol, think we'd act hav sex 3times, me drunk all three times, him sober once out of the lot of them, before we ever went cinema, and it was still weird!!! lol, its not anymore though!! :D:D
Posted Wed Mar 04, 2009 04:39 AM
Posted Wed Mar 04, 2009 04:50 AM
On the flipside if u already know this guy this relationship may be upto somethin. If this guy knows u well too considreing u live close, i dont think u blew up.. he may already be knowing that u have found him attractive. :smile:
But one night stands with complete starngers is something i stay away from.
Posted Wed Mar 04, 2009 04:53 AM
Hey! way to go brazil!
Posted Wed Mar 04, 2009 05:15 PM
she does kno him already, and always said by myself and others above, one night stands can end up in relationships and in some cases marriage, and thats when the people didnt know each other!!!
i think its really nice, its just like taking a car for a test drive before you buy!!! lol
Posted Wed Mar 04, 2009 11:53 PM