Where, O where did my sex drive go?
Posted Thu Mar 05, 2009 06:11 PM
My wife and it were having sex minimum once a day for a long time. While pregnant we were still above average in bed, even when her sex drive faded around the third trimester. Now, I'm working from home watching our girl and my drive is 98% absent. It stops to visit... maybe... but never sticks around. Hers is back to normal and I'm getting frustrated that I don't want to be with her (or anyone) right now. I want to get back to normal.
Is anyone else familiar with this? I've looked online for similar cases but usually get returns of the woman loosing her drive or impotence articles.
Posted Fri Mar 06, 2009 08:10 AM
It happens to most guys and is called mid-life crisis, meaning sex just doesn't come as easy as it used to. Her libido on the other hand will stay high till past sixty. Also, the beautiful body that you once held so dear and turned you on so much every time you saw it, may slowly take a different shape which is not quite so enticing. And, to top it off, you now got other interference to take up your time. Times when you might have been interested are now few. Work, worry and responsibility can get in the way. Failure to perform leads to more failure.
You did not say if you drink or smoke, but both are erection killers. Overweight too. Also, some meds you might be on, could be hurting you. One thing, you may need a physical to include blood and urine work, and presenting your problem to the Doc...who realizes today that good health depends on a good sex life...and any meds recommended may be covered by insurance. Pay attention to the results which may expose a lack of a vitamin or mineral in your diet or an issue that needs addressing.
You could also try some of the natural herb sex enhancers available at health stores. You are on your own here...each of us respond differently. Some guys have found incredible results.
Posted Fri Mar 06, 2009 09:18 AM
then again im 18 so i could always just think about bending a girl over and having some rough sex and im good to go.
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Posted Fri Mar 06, 2009 11:17 AM
try anal masturbation, you don't need to be hard for it, but it might make you hard